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Any mom would get offended over this, even if it came from a complete stanger.

"As i can see from your childs photo u ar not very attractive and more on the larger side. Stop living your life through your child! your only going to set her up for a big fat fall when she goes to school and the other kids laugh at her for not being true pagent material and never really winning. Yes its the taking part what matters, but not when she's the only on her size and then she eats more to make herself feel better. i know you were never a real beauty and want to be one of us but nor is your kid so dont put her through it, keep her with the other mouses!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! "

Maybe it is cause I am thin skinned, but I can't help being very upset that someone would be this mean.
My screen name doesn't mean that I am a fat person, it comes from the fact that I raise Siberian Huskys. And as far as my child being unattractive like me, she doesnt even know what I look like!

2006-10-13 12:50:46 · 20 answers · asked by LittleMermaid 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting Parenting

The photo that I have on here doesn't even have me in it, and it only shows my daughter from the shoulders up. How could this hateful person assume that either me or my daughter is fat or unattractive by a photo the size of a postage stamp? I know some people just get a kick out of being mean, but geez, this takes it beyond that, when you are attacking an innocent 2 year old. And as a matter of fact, I am stopped constantly, including multiple times last night at the pagent, to be told how beautiful she is and what gorgeous blue eyes and curly hair she has.

2006-10-13 12:54:58 · update #1

I posted a question. It was a valid question. I want to know why people like this say things like what this person did.

2006-10-13 13:09:03 · update #2

20 answers

You're not thin skinned. I got really bothered by that too. Your two year old daughter is simply beautiful (from the small picture i can see, he he he). It is extremly sad that some people out there only see the exterior beauty and that if it is not up to THIER standard they feel they have to put other people down. For her to say that means that she has major issues. She is not happy with herself.
And for you to copy this on here to show other people how insensitive some people can be in this world shows that you are a much better person and that there are some actualy human beings here.
You go and be the best mother you can be to your children (and your huskey's....ha ha ha) and forget the haters. May God bless.

2006-10-13 13:02:42 · answer #1 · answered by Kyanadri82 2 · 3 3

This in the internet, a medium of faceless nameless people, many view it as a place to take their agressions out because they do not view other posters as people at all... Yes what was said was hurtful there but, comes a time when you need to realize taking the hurt inside of you is giving the hurter exactly what they want....

You have a choice on the internet a choice to ignore the hate and move on or take the hate in an wallow in it... I am sorry no one told you the internet is a vicious and hateful place sometimes... But it is and you have fallen for one of the classic internet chat and message board "Fishing" techniques...

A person wants to be a bully so they insult and act rudely toward people until they until someone takes the hook, once they find that someone they chip away... Its the same as the school bully who looks for the child who will cry and react as the "victim" .... It's no fun to pick on someone who does not react.... In this case you took the bait and clamped onto the hook, it's now time to spit the hook out..

View the internet like the school yard....... there are bullies, there are victims, and there are those who are neither bully nor victim... You want to be in the third group neither a bully nor a victim....

2006-10-13 13:55:48 · answer #2 · answered by Diane (PFLAG) 7 · 0 2

Some people have no life. She's not worth your time or your efforts and why anyone would cut down a child is beyond me. I think your baby is adorable. :) I didn't answer your other question because I don't have an opinion. I like the idea of kids getting college money if they win pageants but I don't like it that they don't know what they're doing/are being subjected to thinking beauty will get your somewhere in life. But I don't think this lady was in the right at all. Good luck with whatever you choose to do and remember YOU are her mommy and YOU make the decisions. :)

2006-10-13 12:56:23 · answer #3 · answered by momofthreemiracles 5 · 1 2

Lol Im sorry i read that and it wasnt even about me and i got mad....I guess shes' been in the pagent business so long that she knows once she sees a very pretty person the first thing to do is to tear them down emtionally so they cant handle it...your daughter is very pretty...from what i could see of her...you pretty much need a magnifying glass to see it tho...I read your profile and its just that if she would of read it maybe she'd seen that you do have siberian huskies and she wouldnt of opened her mouth....dont let her make you feel bad....anyone can be pretty on the outside its the inside that draws attention...You should of told her simply that if shes sooo gorgous on the outside.....it must be because there making up for whats on the inside...so she can take her rude comments and SHOVE IT!!!!

2006-10-13 13:02:31 · answer #4 · answered by cutenwild1769 5 · 1 2

Dear Huskymom, this is a question that you ask a lot - why are people so rude?

I think we need to remember that people have no reason to be polite. We can't find them and smack their wrists, and some people are going to be rude.

If you don't like it, then leave the site. Leave the section. I am sorry people are rude. I often feel that I am under attack in my questions on the grounds of religious persecution.

But you can only complain about it so often. It's not going to change! Good luck.

2006-10-13 18:51:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4 1

That's the beauty of the Internet as well as the world, for that matter. Not everyone is going to think the way you think and if you can't deal with that, too bad. Freedom of speech is a wonderful thing. Now stop trying to suck people into your world of drama. If you have a problem with another user either report them or take it into private correspondence.

2006-10-13 16:52:21 · answer #6 · answered by disneychick 5 · 2 1

I think your daughter is adorable, and Groovy Chick is probably a fat ugly skank. She certainly has an ugly mouth!
Even though YA seems to be a fairly nice community, I suggest that you don't post pix of your children anywhere on the internet. It's a major breech of family security. And obviously, not everyone that looks at the pix is nice. I never, never want to see her sweet face on an amber alert! I'm a mother, too. Be cautious, Mama!

2006-10-13 13:05:19 · answer #7 · answered by Shepherd 5 · 2 2

Water off a ducks back -- let it roll off of you.

Don't let someone you don't know, who doesn't know you or your child upset you. It is a waste of time. People on here are just flat out mean sometimes. I guess it makes them feel good to dish on someone else. I don't know -- but she can't judge your daughter based on that tiny pic and she can't judge you for any reason.

When I get answers that hurt me I just give them a bad rating, which closes them and I don't look at them anymore!!!

2006-10-13 12:56:46 · answer #8 · answered by Beth M 4 · 1 2

Ignore her and people like her (yeah, listen to me after all the rows I have had with my pal, Jellybean). She just wants to push your buttons and she did. Some people are just extremely rude and insulting. A sad fact of life.
Your baby is cute.

2006-10-13 13:08:12 · answer #9 · answered by AlongthePemi 6 · 1 2

She manipulated you & you obviously fell for it by posting this question. Now she can report YOU & it is possible that you could even loose your access to this site. You can still delete the question yourself & avoid the risk of her reporting you. You should have just reported her for emailing you an OFFENSIVE statement. Now you know how these sickos work. Don't fall prey to their sick ways.

2006-10-13 13:05:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2 2

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