Ok my boyfriend is with me everyday. Well yesterday he wasn't b/c he was with his little cousin...which is fine with me.
but today he left me after like an hour to go back there. I told him that I have no one to hang out with now.(because none of my friends were home) He made me a promise that we would spend all day together tomorrow and he swore to me he wants to be with me. I just feel like I'm forcing him to be here? help!!!
2006-10-13 12:42:15 · 19 answers · asked by uluvme8807 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you aren't realizing that you do see him every day. In most relationships, I don't think that's the case. So you're lucky! If he needs a day or so to take care of something else, then you should let him. And keep in mind, he told you he wanted to be with you tomorrow. That's special. I don't think you were pressuring him, but make sure you don't make him feel like you're smothering him.
2006-10-13 12:46:07 · answer #1 · answered by Ally S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing I have realized from being in a relationship, time to girls is precious, we want to spend it with that one person you love so much. When they are with their friends, family... and you are home alone those 3 hours to him seem like 20 minutes and those 3 hours to us seem like 7. You gotta keep yourself busy and find hobbies so you dont feel like you are making him hang out with you and afterall being with his family isnt a bad thing, why cant you hang out with him also when he is there. Whatever happens you still need your space, whether you want it or not, you need to have it. Find hobbies, write, listen to music, jot feelings, run there are so many things you can do.
2006-10-13 12:48:13 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I genuinely have a pal who's like that to her young ones. Her young ones are gonna enhance up undesirable with various themes and even perhaps hate the father and mom. that's what i think of besides as quickly as I see them.
2016-10-19 08:44:30 · answer #3 · answered by goodknight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has a right to choose what choice to choose to do. Give him his freedom. Sit back and decide for yourself if this the kind of boyfriend you want. Learn about co-dependancy. Teach yourself to control you own feelings and learn to be strong.
DT
2006-10-13 12:53:09 · answer #4 · answered by dinehshii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well a promise is a promise why cant you go with him and his cousin i dont i just feel like it's more than that find out .
2006-10-13 12:47:34 · answer #5 · answered by mz.thang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a little space and time of his own but believe me, if he does really like u, he should want to spend every second with u
2006-10-13 12:48:59 · answer #6 · answered by red_is_my_blood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him space, pick up a hobby. Go shopping. You guys will have better time out, if you let him have some space.
2006-10-13 12:46:31 · answer #7 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. umm hang out w/ him tomorrow and then have a lil talk w/ him and ak him if ur kind of bossing him around.. and if he gets nervous trying to figure out the ansewr .. try giving him sum private time.. ( u no without u)
2006-10-13 12:47:14 · answer #8 · answered by crazychick786 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Overtime can quickly kill any relationship. Give him air to breathe, he'll come rushing back to you, just make sure you don't give him the impression that you don't want him as your b/f anymore.
Good luck!
2006-10-13 12:52:59 · answer #9 · answered by Nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it does'nt hurt to spend a little quality time with yourself
you know?you need more friend be more independent
he is going to be tired of you soon.
take care
isabelle
2006-10-13 12:49:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋