2006-10-13 12:38:40 · 15 answers · asked by alananavarro22 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
its historical issues im mean its kind of human nature ....
2006-10-13 12:43:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just ignore what they say and change the subject. Or you could try defending the other when one starts talking. Or tell them that you don't think it is right to hear just one side of the story and ask if it's okay to invite the other over so you can get both sides at once. Okay, that last one was sarcastic - couldn't help it. But don't you just hate when relatives do that to you.
2006-10-13 12:43:33 · answer #2 · answered by hazyseptember 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that you don't want to hear what they and to say about the other,and I dont know if you want to bet tell them that if they want to talk to you then they have to stop talking about each other because you are tired of it.And if they dont like that then dont call you any more.But if there are kids invovled then tell them to only call you when it has something to do with the kids.And if they still want to talk to you as a friend then they need to be adults and keep what ever they have to say about each other to them self's.
2006-10-13 12:46:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell them that you don't mean any harm, but you don't want to hear it . . . if they call you on the phone and start to talk crap, pretend that you have a call on the other line or left food cooking on the stove and tell them that you have to go . . . if you're face to face, just look at your watch and say "oh, I forgot I have to be ____ in 15 minutes, I have to go" . . . they should get the hint . . .
2006-10-13 12:41:10 · answer #4 · answered by ♥LoisLane♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your brother in laws wives, so they r ur sisters?
2006-10-13 13:21:31 · answer #5 · answered by coco puffy. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young Lady;
Stand up when they start and simply say I Don't want to hear It. If they continue go else where even if they are in your house there are other rooms. Good Luck.
2006-10-13 12:42:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple, tell them you dont want to hear it. Whats the worst that can happen? They start talking about you to each other, but you dont have to listen to them anymore.
2006-10-13 12:42:31 · answer #7 · answered by silent*scream 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't stop them. They are going to do it rgardless, but you can stop them from talking about each other with you.
Tell them you don't want to hear it anymore.
2006-10-13 12:52:19 · answer #8 · answered by tbrat2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well kinda tell them u don't care and really don't want to know about it!
2006-10-13 12:41:29 · answer #9 · answered by jackieisamerish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop listening to them...the worst thing to do is to listen
and take side really you're not right either...they go to you
only for that they think you're going to say..
take care
isabelle
2006-10-13 12:44:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell each one that you are not going to get involved. dont want to hear it
2006-10-13 12:41:38 · answer #11 · answered by fn_49@hotmail.com 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋