I got a couple of etiquette questions to ask!Please answer if you got the time?

Question

If a sibling hits you do you hit back?
Is someone ask you for money but clearly uses you for only that do you confront them?
If someone that you LIKE embaresses you or ask you out later turned out a joke,how would you act?
IF someone in your famiyl is sexiest,racist,old,pedophile,perverted,demanding and grumpy how do you act towards them?

Answer 1

- depends, if the sibling is younger than you (much younger, still in the 3-8 age bracket) then try to discipline them. If they're close to your own age. Hit them back twice as hard.
- Confront them about it, ask them to repay your money before you lend them any more.
- Ditch the jerk! They obviously aren't worth your time or interest.
- Try to ignore their 'ism's but if you can't, then confront them about it, tell them your opinion and ask them to stop. (the pedophile bit should be turned in to the cops.)

Answer 2

1. No. No one should be hitting any one.
2. Stop giving. You won't have to confront them, when they realize the well has gone dry, they'll be gone in no time.
3. No one can embarrass you, but you! Never stoop to their level. Avoid people like that if you can, if that's not possible, just outclass them.
4. Rise above it. Use their bad behavior as an example of what not to be. If their actions are illegal (pedophile) go to the police, go to someone you can trust to help you get this person locked up. As far as the old and grumpy, live with it. Depending on how old, they may have every reason in the world to be grumpy. You could try to put a smile on their face by over looking the grouchy aspect and becoming a friend.
If all of your adjectives are describing one person, he or she is a bad person and needs to be somewhere where they can't harm anyone. This isn't the place you should be looking for answers. The help you need is immediate. Talk to real people. Make someone listen to you and believe what you are saying. Other family members might not be the best place to go for help, they may already know what you know but don't want to believe it.
GET HELP!

Answer 3

hitting the sibling - no I would not hit back. hitting is wrong but I would tell my sibling that I found the hitting offensive and disrespectful and ask them to not do so again, If it continued I would ask my parents to speak to the sibling.

money - yes i would confront them and never lend tham any money again

embarassing - I wuold feel very disappointed and think that this person has shown a total disrespect for my feelings.. I wuld not trust this type of person again, as I would feel very hurt. To trust them a sewcond time would be foolish

racist/grumpy - every one has the right to their own opinion and if that means they are racist, grumpy, old or sexist that is their problem, but I would make a joke to them about there lack of political correctnes and also maybe try to explain to them gently how other people might be offended by there attitude. But at the end of the day they can be who they want just as you can choose who you are....But the pedophile bit I would report to the police and have no contact with a person like that...Personal choice

Answer 4

If a sibling hits you do you hit back? Never hit anyone.

Is someone ask you for money but clearly uses you for only that do you confront them? If you ask for the money back and they don't pay you back just learn a lesson and don't give them money again.

If someone that you LIKE embarrasses you or ask you out later turned out a joke,how would you act? Embarrassed...don't let that happen twice.

IF someone in your family is sexiest, racist, old, pedophile,p... and grumpy how do you act towards them? STAY FAR AWAY... and if another adult doesn't know he's a pedophile then tell someone.

Answer 5

1) No, that will start a fight and cause more trouble for the mother which in turn gets you all in trouble.

2) If I were you, yes. I would confront them. They have no common interest with you but your money.

3) I would just go along with the joke and forgive them.

4) I would probably just shrug them off and not give them the time of day, they aren't worth bothering.

Answer 6

Wow! Okay, well first how old are the siblings? Next, if somebody continually asks me for money and is using me just for that, I'd tell them I had some unexpected expenses come up and you just don't have it to give to them. The unexpected expense is your dwindling savings account. As far as the asking you out thing, nobody that really likes or respects you is going to want to embarass you. And as far as family, if you're uncomfortable around somebody, then don't be around them.

Answer 7

I'd try not to hit back, but might anyway,lol.
Don't give that person any more money.
Probably hurt
If someone was a pedophile in my family, i would turn them in to the police.

Answer 8

OK....
No, don't hit back
Do not give them money, then defiantly confront, but remember to be mature about it.
If someone embarrasses you, or plays mean jokes, then they are not worth your time. Find someone who will treat you with respect!!!
If someone in your family is simply not nice, then you need to be respectful, and mature, but avoid them.
If someone in your family is a pedophile, them you need to NEVER be alone with them, and you need to tell another adult who can help protect you...your mom, dad, aunt, a school teacher, a pastor, a best friends parent...someone!!! NO EXCEPTIONS TO THIS ONE!!!

Answer 9

1. No.
2. Yes.
3. I don't understand that question.
4. With absolute lack of respect.

Answer 10

1- this isn't the era in which "an eye for an eye" works. just walk away from the sibling
2- yes, I would. you don't have "BANK" printed on your forehead, do you?
3- confront them about the incident. you aren't a walking joke and you deserve to be treated like a human.
4- i wouldn't hang out around them. or, if you are comfortable enough, confront them on the situation or tell them that they make you uncomfortable.
bottom line- you deserve to be comfortable with yourself and the people around you no matter who you are and if you're not comfortable, leave.