How to break a relationship when all the family and friends like you?

Question

How do you think is it possible, when you are in a relationship where you are not satisfied, but all the family and friends like you. and the time to break up is urging ...but you feel bad because, u are going to deceive the family and friends when you move on ..Can you give me some strategies,...and Have anyone ever experienced that ?

Answer 1

Its tough, but in the end the family will understand. Of course they would want you two to stay together and get upset, but in the end they will look out for your bf/gf. Its better to do it asap as opposed to letting it drag on. Dont avoid the issue and do it. Out of respect for your bf/gf family, break up in a way where you don't list all the things that's wrong about them. Do it in a way where you feel as though the relationship is not going to progress any further and you feel it would be wrong to cheat your bf/gf of your entire heart. Sometimes true love is shown by letting the other go to find true happiness.

Answer 2

I was in the same situation, you can't stay in a relationship where your not happy because his/her friends and family might be mad at you. If they were really your friends and cared about you, then they would want you to be happy whether or not your with that person. It is possible to remain friends with the family of that person you are with. But if they hate you because of the break up then they never really cared about you in the first place.....don't compromise your happiness because your afraid of what a few people think. JUST BE HAPPY FOR YOURSELF NOT ANYBODY ELSE!!!!

Answer 3

its your life and if your not happy just break up with him in a nice way and if the family dont like you no more then they were just nice to you cuz you were with him

Answer 4

no idea...i wish i could tell u more but that has never happened to me before....