2006-10-13 12:36:15 · 33 answers · asked by Daisy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Leave him.
2006-10-13 12:38:07 · answer #1 · answered by Cyndie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely not be afraid of standing up to him.... Hon, it's 2006... All that "let a man be a man" our parents (females) were trying to instill in us is out the window and caught the bus. If he was a real man, he would be trying to be loving and cater to you just like he wants from you. And to add the sugar to the cool-aid, men need to realize that they are losing us females as companions because of that controlling bull crap. Then have the nerve to turn around and say were nagging..... Think about it!
2006-10-13 12:46:41 · answer #2 · answered by Ebony da *Dimepiece* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in this situation, even married a man like this. It was a HUGE mistake. Men who control like to have power over the woman. This will only escalate. It can become abusive, if it isn't already. You are fortunate that he is a boyfriend. You should end this relationship like yesterday. Respect yourself and realize there is only one you in the entire world. You deserve only the best.
2006-10-14 05:46:29 · answer #3 · answered by Joy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had a few controlling as.s hole boyfriends, key word: HAD. Compromising is one thing, but controlling is one thing I won't do. Wave bye bye.
2006-10-13 12:38:41 · answer #4 · answered by CharlieCat 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Leave his controlling as.s
2006-10-13 12:37:29 · answer #5 · answered by annastasia1955ca 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him where to go basically or that he sorted his controlling behaviour out or risked losing you. Tell him he needs a lap dog, not a female form of perfection to try and control!!!!!!! Show him whose boss by taking back that control and showing him the door!!
2006-10-13 12:40:34 · answer #6 · answered by carolina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Hun, first u have a friend learn everything he is doing and think about breaking up or if the big questions pops in the head think about something else!
2006-10-13 12:39:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please please Leave him....I am 34 years old and was in a very bad very abusive relationship for 8 years. He started out just being "controlling" He was jealous of all my friends. But he always said it was because he "loved" me...Then he began to push me then he hit me then he would hit me with what ever he had in his hands. His belt, a wrench, a screwdriver. Once he almost killed me by choking me in front of my daughter. It does not get better. I was scared to leave him so i stayed. It took me a lot of courage and a very good friend for me to leave. NO ONE deserves to be treated badly...
2006-10-13 12:51:24 · answer #8 · answered by sunnyrita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is about time you tell him off and hit the road,there are better men out there and you dont have to take that for no man what so ever.
2006-10-13 12:39:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your family about it. Leave him far behind and stay away from him for good. Rely on the people who love you. They will help you.
2006-10-13 12:38:44 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put my foot in his as.s
2006-10-13 12:37:58 · answer #11 · answered by midiman77 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋