I know i asked thise question before, but i need more help. Today we made eye contact twice and he just looked away quickly, he was probably looking at me b/c i was facing the way i was suppossed to be. And i think he stares me a lot. I dont know. And "If" he likes me , he doesnt talk to me b/c maybe he is afriad of what people will think if we go out. I also think that maybe he stares at me b/c he knows i stare at him.I think he might know i like by staring at him. I never told anyone who l liked.Maybe my crush likes someone lese, i dont know. I think i keep thinking that my crush likes me, but he doesnt. I guess it is all in my head. I have no idea what to do.
2006-10-13 12:32:07 · 18 answers · asked by Chloe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oops too many mistakes, i meant *he likes someone else*
2006-10-13 12:33:17 · update #1
PLUS I CANT TALK TO HIM< I AM VERY SHY AND QUIET, I AM THE SHYEST PERSON EVER. And i cant tell my friends at all who i like.
2006-10-13 12:34:46 · update #2
He is not a murderer or serial killer, we both go to school and are teenagers.
2006-10-13 12:35:33 · update #3
I guess i should stop looking at him , but i did that, it was just that we happen to be facing each other, so it was kinda like that.
2006-10-13 12:37:13 · update #4
I am going to start ignoring him , did i mention that i had a crush on him on the fifth day of school and i didnt even really know him , it was a sudden crush and i feel a connection.
2006-10-13 12:39:07 · update #5
I dont think he even likes me, b/c i am not pretty.But would he like a girl that is taller than him?? B/c he is very small and i am the same height, i would be perfect for him but too bad i am ugly.
2006-10-13 12:40:30 · update #6
We only talked like once. :(
2006-10-13 12:44:04 · update #7
HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-14 11:23:18 · update #8
ask him straight, then decide.
2006-10-13 12:33:26 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you probably act weird around him and he probably notices that. Even as you write you sound like a really nervous, somewhat scared, really young person who has a really huge, obvious crush. I think you are focusing on him a little too much and maybe even obsessing a little. It's kinda hard not to make eye contact with someone who's watching your every move everyday. And he might be staring at you, but probably just thinking about why you are always looking at him all of the time. Even if you haven't told anyone who your crush is, sometimes it's just so obvious you don't have to. I would just suggest for you to try and focus on something else for a while and let him come to you. If he likes you he will be more likely to pursue you if you aren't paying so much attention to him. If he doesn't, then you can move on.
2006-10-13 19:43:04 · answer #2 · answered by Ferosia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not looking at him so much. Just act casual. Say 'hey' and don't act like you're crazy about him. He's probably looking at you to see if you are staring at him. People can usually feel it when someone is looking at them and it makes most feel uncomfortable. If he likes you, he will find a way to let you know and will talk to you. Start acting as if he doesn't exist. After all the "attention" you've been giving him, that will drive him craZy. At the least, it will make him wonder what you're up to ; )
2006-10-13 19:36:37 · answer #3 · answered by Sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it one day at a time... try to talk to him. the fact he's looking at you could be a really good sign (but I don't want to get your hopes up). Why don't you just hang out with him and see if you guys have something in common and go from there.
2006-10-13 19:34:43 · answer #4 · answered by Lax Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do if you are not sure is to leave it alone.
Maybe he is always looking at you because you are freaking him out by always looking at him. Try not looking at him and see if he stops staring.
2006-10-13 19:34:04 · answer #5 · answered by luckybluebunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he knows you like him and you stare at him, than he was probably only looking at you because he knows you like him. You probably should avoid staring at him or making it so obvious you like him, he probably thinks it's funny or a little creepy.
2006-10-13 19:34:35 · answer #6 · answered by coletteraubal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats hard. realy all i can say is just wait and see. u don't wnat to get hurt. so realy all i can say is just figure it out on ur own that the best way. only u can know if he likes uor not. morely he dose though if he looks at u.
2006-10-13 19:35:22 · answer #7 · answered by punk girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may be shy & acts like he is not interested but really is
he could be looking at you because he saw you looking at him
if you like him - say that to him - he may say the same back to you
i know alot of guys who are completely different when u get them away from their friends - soft & kind.
2006-10-13 19:36:25 · answer #8 · answered by Denise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys usually stare at things that are like right behind the girl. but if he makes eye contact then he may like you.
2006-10-13 19:36:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
looking at u twice is not a lot!!! if he stares at u and u star at him with out stop looking at each other... then something might happen there....but other then that... i don't think he likes u...
2006-10-13 19:35:56 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk right up to him with a little force in your walk.stop and ask him are you staring at me..
and you have to be ready for his answer .it will be one of a few things...yes or no..or what..or no you are..
so do it with force and ask him whats up..
and then decide how your going to answer him..force not rudeness.
good luck
2006-10-13 19:36:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋