I'm a 17 year old guy and highschool senior from Florida. I have a crush on a junior in my class. I've never felt this way about a girl before. I've been mildly attracted to girls before but never to the degree that I wanted to be their boyfriend. I think she feels the same about me. We've never actually had a coversation other than a few brief words in French, but we are sometimes caught off gard glancing at each other. Whenever we pass each other in the hall she smiles but seems slightly nervous. Today we looked at each other in the eyes intently and she tossed her hair back as I walked past her up the stairs. Unfortunately, we are both kind of shy. As beautiful as she is my attraction to her isn't sexual but something much more profound. I see an intensity in her eyes that I have yet to see in any others. I appreciate her intellect. Something about her manner and the way she dresses is so classy and appealing. I don't know want to do. Should I ask her out on date? To the prom?
2006-10-13 12:11:42 · 17 answers · asked by JLK_American_Patriot 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well use what you two have in common... French. If you feel this strong connection with her, tell her! What's the worst that can happen? You'll graduate and if she rejects you, you'll forget her, and if she accepts, well maybe you'll have a long-lasting relationship. If you wanted to ask her out someplace say:
"Je voudrais aller au cinema avec toi"
See how she responds, but for your own sake, don't say it in class, she might just think you're doing an assignment or something. Meet her in the hallway.
2006-10-13 12:15:52 · answer #1 · answered by Ally S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're so sweet. Go for it, I don't see how she can turn you down. Ask her on a date and to prom. You don't really have anything to lose here because neither of you talk to each other much right now. Ask her out, it will probably be the best thing you do all year.
2006-10-13 12:17:08 · answer #2 · answered by deepwaters05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES
YES
YES
You are obviously a sensitive, mature 17 year old boy with a case of self-doubt. Guess what? Everyone has self-doubt. The only way to find out if she is interested in you is to express your interest in her. Say, "voulez-vous manger avec moi pour dejuner" or something like that....ask her to join you for lunch. Or see if she uses IM and try humor....you'd be amazed how quickly two people who are shy in person can get comfortable with each other using technology like IM. This stuff didn't exist when I was in HS. I wish it had! We had to pass notes! Go for it.
2006-10-13 12:18:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and yes, do it, ask her out, this will be the first of many encounters with the opposite sex. I know it is scary asking women out, but what is more scary, being 31 years old and typing into a computer all alone regretting that you did not ask a girl out that you were attracted to in High School.(Not referring to me) Do not do it man, ask her out, weather you do go out with her or not does not really matter, what matters is that you tried, which is a lot better than not trying and regretting what could of been...
2006-10-13 12:24:28 · answer #4 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask her out to the prom, that'll make her happy if you ask. You're going through the same thing I'm going through. I actually like a guy in my french class and he likes me too.
2006-10-13 12:54:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOURE SO FREAKIN LUCKY. She is attracticted to you. By reading this you are she want in a man. Go for it. HAVE CONFIDENCE AND DONT RUSH THINGS. It looks like its gonna work out great. Either show you affection now or ask her to the prom then go on from there. I wish i was in your position.
2006-10-13 13:32:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with "I'm a shy guy. I like you, and don't know how to say it. I would love to take you to dinner."
Keep it simple, don't intellectualize it to death, don't have the whole relationship in your head. Save those wonderful observations for when you want to write her long love letters after you've started dating. But you have to get the date first!
2006-10-13 12:16:53 · answer #7 · answered by William M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By all means. Invite her to the prom and if that's too distant in the future, ask her to a movie.
2006-10-13 12:15:21 · answer #8 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it, If she is blonde and she looks so good that you have a crush on her, she can do better than you. You will have more success if you pay attention to girls who like you.
2016-05-21 23:52:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go straight for the kill bro, ask her out on a date. If she says no fair doos shes put u out of ur misery
2006-10-13 12:15:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋