This happened to a friend of mine, can I get guy & girl opinions?
She found an old high school friend on myspace. They chatted through email for about a week and caught up and one day he came over to talk. About 15 minutes into the talk, they wound up having sex. She said that it was just...instant. She made the first move, because she always wanted to know what it was like to kiss him. And...things went on from there.
They are still friends, and nothing has happened since then.
Now, I have been there before (not in the same situation, mind you) but, I was just wondering...
Do you think, for it to happen THAT fast that there was instant sexual attraction from both parties or was she just willing and he hit it for the hell of it?
2006-10-13 12:10:07 · 23 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well maybe when they were in school they both liked eachother but missed the chance. it could of been alot of pent up sexual feelings for eachother, now mind you, i was in a situation kinda like that I ment my current husband thru a mutaul friend, a few months after knowing eachother, i perfromed a sexual act on him, nothing happend for awhile, and we were still friends, about six months later we had sex, and we became a couple, maybe that will happen, maybe they were just sexually attracted to each other , i know i was the first time i laid eyes on my husband, I really think that was prolly it,,,,,,,, who knows you might be walking down to the alter, before her in a year or two......
2006-10-13 12:17:44 · answer #1 · answered by Pit Bull Owned! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There probably had been some attraction between them in High School. When they saw each other again, they acted on those feelings from years before. Nothing else has happened, well because, just like in high school, sometimes its more of a physical attraction than an emotional attraction. If your friend was interested in the person, they should give them a call and see what the other is thinking of the situation.
2006-10-13 12:12:45 · answer #2 · answered by Ally S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on if they have conversed since the "incident". If he has been gently around her as far as conversation then its a sure bet that he's trying to play his cards right, playing it safe if you will. Seeing how she feels about the whole situation. If he's a good guy then he's waiting for her to bring the whole things to light if she is wanting more than a one night stand, If she doesn't bring it up he'll compute the whole thing as a fling for her and him for that night and won't bring it up again. Now mind you there was probably a lot of tension for both of them to begin with some it just need some kind of spark and that was it. Usually when women make the first move like that he wasn't "hitting it for the hell of it" he was going along with what she was feeling for all he knew it could have lead to something more maybe not. Anyway you look at it they both where in the heat of passion. Rekindling some old memories that they had been sitting on for awhile.
2006-10-13 12:21:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe there was instant sexual attraction, but I'm willing to bet what the attraction really was was that each person reminded the other of the place they'd met last--high school. Seeing the other person brought them back to a point in time that lacked the responsibilities and stresses of adulthood and, for most, was some of the best days of our lives. I think they were probably lusting after nostalgia just as much as they were lusting after each other.
2006-10-13 12:14:16 · answer #4 · answered by A.R. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that there can be a situation when both people just have a spontaneous spark and things can get very hot. It depends on there situation at the time and what other factors might have stimulated them. So yes it can happen but the second option is also possible
2006-10-13 12:19:30 · answer #5 · answered by David P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was probably past tension from what them two had before. Once they realized the spark was still there, they just had to add fuel. I dont think a girl would be that willing, so i think it was a both kinda go with it situation.
2006-10-13 12:12:12 · answer #6 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He hit it....or it was instant attraction and the sex really sucked.
If it was instant attraction and a good experience then he would have come back for more.
2006-10-13 12:18:20 · answer #7 · answered by 1978 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is sex and always come with attraction if not something must be wrong. Reason to happened is because we love to be attracted and enjoy the moment of having each other.
2006-10-13 12:16:03 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that may no longer what got here approximately with me. I went out with my terrific pal, who became a guy. Then, I broke up with him [reason no longer given] and because we've been already such close friends in the previous we went out, we stayed terrific friends. yet did no longer pass out. Then, some years later, we went out back. And regardless of what got here approximately [some thing got here between us], we are nonetheless terrific friends. So it wasn't a broken friendship for us. yet, you are able to no longer anticipate the destiny. pass out for some video clips [as friends] and then, if issues stay the style you think of they're going to, you are able to ask him on your place for dinner or some thing some cases. the two act rather intense high quality and gown sturdy. possibly then your mum and dad will exchange their minds..
2016-10-02 06:49:58 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say a good bit of both. There had to be mutual attraction for him to come over, and he hit it for the hell of it when it was offered.
2006-10-13 12:13:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋