Been chattin to this guy online for a while now...he really wants to meet me, n so do i, he gets me really horny and he seems nice. Is it safe to? What have i got to loose!?
2006-10-13 11:59:29 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanx for your comments, think i'll just stay at home thats the safest way!
2006-10-13 12:22:41 · update #1
i dont think its safe. at least tell your parents about it or bring a friend or two with you.
2006-10-13 12:01:00 · answer #1 · answered by *~*MaryAnn*~* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most women have a story like this. You meet someone online, get chatting, find you have things in common and think the same way, start to turn each other on on the phone, and progress to webcam sex, then finally arrange to meet. Usually that's when the magic stops. Most people, especially men it seems, are in a kind of fantasy world when they're online, and generally baulk at the thought of it becoming reality. A good many people lie about themselves in relation to their marital status, age or employment details. They don't want this to become revealed in real life, because they've convinced you online. It may well be different in your case. I really hope so for your sake, because I think you will go for a meeting. You can't help it. You think you've finally found love. Just keep a tiny bit of yourself prepared for him not showing. Good luck.
2006-10-13 14:47:56 · answer #2 · answered by yvonne c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your life maybe?
Ask him out on a date with 4 other people, so you are 3 couples and never leave their sight.
You seriously need to be careful, the internet has become the tool for all fruit loops and nutters to get hold of young and naive girls.
Go out for at least 2 dates as a group, don't get a lift home unless he drops you off with other people and even after that make sure everyone knows where you are.
Keep safe.
2006-10-13 12:12:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bwoy, you must either be really young or really dunce
Boys (me being one) are horny creatures out there to get some pu**y!!!!! And if you want to be dragged away, raped, beaten up, then go for it. otherwise relax.
If you wana find out about this boy, then link him somewhere like McDs, BUT take a group of friends so its like a group linkage, AND don't be alone with him on the first meeting. OK yeah you can sit on a table alone, BUT don't go anywhere. Could be a group gangbang ting, meet him at least three four times before you go somewhere alone. Remember you have A LOT to lose - possibly your life. don't be trusting - in these times YOU CAN'T!!!
Find out his history.
HOWEVER, if all your after is a quick bang, make that clear to him and MAYBE he'll be straight up with you. Otherwise, unlucky horny biatch who should respect herself a bit more.
2006-10-13 12:08:06 · answer #4 · answered by badboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is a plan that worked for my man and me when we met:
We met at a "safe place" where we could met and talk with people nearby if needed. My daughter called every hour to check on me to make sure I was OK. He actually liked that fact that my daughter cared enough to check up with me. If he would have been a "questionable" person I could have left at any time. He knew there would be another phone call coming. She had his name, address, and phone number to give to the police if she was worried about me. Of course, things turned out even better than we had hoped. We have been together since that day and plan to spend the rest of our lives together.
2006-10-13 12:05:19 · answer #5 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a person that takes chances, so yes, meet him but do it in a public place. You can't trust what a guy says on the internet. I had one send me a picture of what he looked like in the 70's. I'm glad I did not meet him, he was way too old and a pervert.
2006-10-13 12:10:58 · answer #6 · answered by rb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you meet anyone from the net always meet in a very public place, tell friends where you are going and get his surname and home telephone number. If he is genuine he won't mind.Take real precautions and do all of the above.
2006-10-13 12:04:14 · answer #7 · answered by Saskia M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first you have to make sure you know whot he person you;re talking to REALLY is, and make sure that it isnt really someone else. A good thing is if your friends or friends or friends know the person so that you can actually know if it's safe or not. Also, amke sure to do it in a crowded place like the mall or a busy park so that nothing bad will happen. Also, bring a couple of friends with you just to make sure. Make sure to ask your parents too
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2006-10-13 12:03:13 · answer #8 · answered by maxim m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhh, your life maybe? No! It's not safe to meet someone that you "know" over the internet. Have you watched the news at all in the past, oh, 3 years! Many many girls have been kidnapped and killed by meeting a "harmless" boy over the internet.
2006-10-13 12:02:23 · answer #9 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
initially, that's what you get for speaking to somebody for see you later on the information superhighway, because of the fact while you're hung up on seems, the information superhighway isn't the appropriate thank you to fulfill women. although, with regard to your question. don't be a dick and have a look at her and then walk away. you're able to desire to honor your date and attempt to have a physically powerful time even if while you're actually not immediatly fascinated in her. considered one of two issues will ensue. the two you will discover which you had a physically powerful time along with her and you will see her as appealing in different techniques than in simple terms they phsyical ingredient. (i know your questioning that it would not sound like something which you're able to do, yet believe me love works in unusual techniques). or you detect which you quite do in contrast to her wherein case you're able to desire to be trustworthy and in simple terms tell her the type you sense. interior the tip, no count how undesirable the reality may be HONESTY is often the appropriate answer.
2016-11-28 04:15:03 · answer #10 · answered by milhollen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it. thats how sex predators get people. why would you want to meet someone that you've been chatting online with. you dont know what he looks like. and he could be lying about what hes been saying. your putting your life at risk if you plan on meeting him. how do you know if hes really been telling the truth. havent you seen on the news how sex predators work..
2006-10-13 12:03:27 · answer #11 · answered by D21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋