Ok yesterday I went to School and I saw my ex bf wearing a neackles from a Girl "friend" we still argue because we ended our relationship with doubt because I still love him and I think he does too. the thing is that after school i asked him if She wanted to be with him and he told me She doesn't just wants me She loves me...and I asked him did she told you? and he said no, but it feels like she does . It hurted me so much because he made me feel like nothing at the moment It still hurts me. how can i fix this problem with him???? or what should i do???
2006-10-13 11:56:52 · 15 answers · asked by Janey 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I were you, I would try my best to get over him. Clearly he is in the process of getting over you because he's wearing a necklace of another girl. Friend or not, it's still another girl, who he thinks is in love with him. You're just gonna get hurt again, ditch him, nurse your wounds and find someone else.
If you can't get over him, and in that case, definately want to get hurt again, I'd say, tell him flat out that you still like him. Watch his face when you tell him, gauge his reaction and go from there. If he seems surprised, or sarcastic, RUN...he's not interested anymore and will just hurt you more. If he seems genuinely touched by this, then you might have a chance, but it's gonna take alot of talking to figure out how to start over again.
Good Luck!
2006-10-13 12:03:24 · answer #1 · answered by Jade de Rhiannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GF,
He is your EX. He told you that his current GF doesn't just "want him" she loves him, and obviously that is important to him.
Love is not something to take lightly.
Some people need to hear it and feel it constantly, and without that reassurance, they are uncomfortable with the relationship.
Advice? Leave it alone.
Step back, get on with your life. If in time, his relationship breaks up and you are single again, then you can try again, this time with more open communication. Don't try to break it up or stew over it. Love hurts. But as they say, better to have love and lost than to never have loved at all.
2006-10-13 12:03:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 06:49:14 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went through that only a few months ago. i be houest the best thing is to avoid him. give ur self time to get over it. i avoid this guy for the whole summer now if he talkes about other girls like his gf it dosen't bug me. so just give it time. get away from it for a while and get a new perspective.
2006-10-13 11:59:54 · answer #4 · answered by punk girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a baseball bat to school and beat the c r a p out of both of them
2006-10-13 11:59:52 · answer #5 · answered by orygunduk1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON. You are too young to deal with this cramp. If he wants you back that bad and it is meant to be then he will do the work to get you back and not wear that necklace!
2006-10-13 11:59:25 · answer #6 · answered by 1978 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get you another boyfriend and butt out of there relationship. You said that he is your ex....Learning this now will help you in the future dear.
2006-10-13 11:59:23 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes willing to be friends take it.. you never know what will happen later on in life. If you bug him and try to come between him and his love, then he will hate you
2006-10-13 12:06:16 · answer #8 · answered by sexyghostgirl69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no problem because you have broken up. You will have to just walk away
2006-10-13 11:58:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant do anything. you cant change others feelings. i think that he just wants to get you jealous
2006-10-13 11:59:36 · answer #10 · answered by blondie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋