alright, so my boyfriend of nine months has been a lil flirty with some girls that he know I hate, and I'm guilty of liking another guy, all of my friends say that i should dump my boyfriend and go out with this new guy, but I feel like I don't have a chance with this guy. Does anyone have some ideas about what to do cause i don't! P.S. we're only 14 P.S.S hes a lower classmen and I get made fun of because of it!.....
2006-10-13 11:52:49 · 11 answers · asked by malibubarbie379 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh! i also forgot to add that when ever i try to break up with him he starts crying on the phone and i feel really bad and change my mind. All my family and friends don't like him and think that i can do alot better but idk..... i mean i don't care about to lower classmen, its not like if I break up with him i'm gunna stop getting made fun of so yeah...lol
2006-10-13 12:04:24 · update #1
hon - the only person that knows the answer is you - you don't sound very committed to your current boyfriend - that's fine as long as you're not stringing him along. be kind and finish with him gently if it has no future. the other guy is a seperate issue - if you really like him, then go for it - who cares what anyone thinks? following your instincts and going for what you really want, instead of what others say you should, is the sign of a mature person. just remember in all this confusion that there are other people beside you who can get their feelings hurt. get a reputation as a nice, kind and loving girl rather than one who can get a guy. good luck!
p.s. if he keeps crying you have to be really really clear, really kind and really firm - let him know gently that it's definitely over, apologise for hurting him and don't give him any cause to hope for a reunion - he'll be fine soon, don't worry.
2006-10-13 11:58:39 · answer #1 · answered by soph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to me from the sounds of it I think it's bout time you and your boyfriend call it quits. I mean nine months is a little long from 14 year olds. You both need to get out and see what esle is out there. I mean if he's flirting with other girl and you like another guy, there really isn't any reason you two should stay together. You can remain friends, but not boyfriend and girlfriend. And about the "lower classmen" don't worry about what other people think as long as your happy with him, who cares what other people think!!!!
Good Luck!
2006-10-13 11:59:53 · answer #2 · answered by poppin_09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't matter if he's a lower class men. If you like the new guy better why not give it a try. Your young and will find other guys. And just because a guy flirts with other girls doesn't mean that he likes them likes them.
2006-10-13 11:55:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
of path no longer. I genuinely have been interior the comparable sitituation for over 10 years! and that i'm no longer with him now. i admire him better than the different guy that I genuinely have been with.it quite is to no longer late to be freinds lower back in case you the two can in simple terms be acquaintances except you want to waste various it sluggish on b.s. And in simple terms undergo in ideas you broke up for a reason in simple terms undergo in ideas that.
2016-10-19 08:41:30 · answer #4 · answered by goodknight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT don't matter if he is a lower class-men if you like him try for him just leave your boyfriend along and get to know the other guy.Who cares what people say as long as you are happy .
2006-10-13 11:58:03 · answer #5 · answered by leeleemd1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too young for b/g relationships. Just treat everyone as friends and you will not be disillusioned over "love" later!
2006-10-13 12:05:55 · answer #6 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
100% friends only.. you are still too young to have a boyfriend, there's still lot of boys after 3-4 yrs
2006-10-13 11:58:40 · answer #7 · answered by A J I E 2 3 â?¢ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Both as a friend's only
2006-10-13 12:11:24 · answer #8 · answered by shaikhmohdmusa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chose the trou 1 who want u for urslef
2006-10-13 11:59:13 · answer #9 · answered by Sami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you arent in love at that age, just give up love because one day they will break your heart like a twig(prepare)
2006-10-13 11:58:06 · answer #10 · answered by mewantcoffee16 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋