he told me today that he just wants to be friends FOR NOW...
all my friends and his friends tell me that he's gonna ask me out soon,
just as he gets to know me more :)
i just hope he likes me for my personality too.
i dont want him to get to know me and realize that he doesn't like my personality.. just my looks...
& not ask me out :(
idontknow maybe when i get to know him i might not like his personality either...
i just dont wanna get hurt.
i should JUST BE MYSELF.. right?
:) thanks you guys
2006-10-13 11:51:29 · 16 answers · asked by Taylor. 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
of course you should be yourself. i belive that relationships should just happen. spend time together and see how you act with eachother. go do things you like to do and thing he likes to do just to see if your interests match up a bit. dont rush into a structured relationship with someone you dont even know. try being friends that might lead to a much truer better realtionship based on intemacy and true feelings
2006-10-13 11:58:46 · answer #1 · answered by Cassandra H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're all tied up in knots...you've got to relax. Yes...you must be yourself. Also now is the time to become self assured and confident.
Its easy...all you have to do is want to be that way.
Next...don't just give respect to anyone with a pretty face. Make them earn it first (sometimes they might not be what they appear to be at first.. And when and if ever you are told no, don't let that make you all teary eyed and hurt. Let all "No's" give you strength and make you more confident.
Take your time and don't rush. This is one of the best times of a courtship.
Relax and enjoy.
2006-10-13 12:04:03 · answer #2 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my o my....wow do women do this to them selves over dudes. Don't you know that a dude just wants to get into your pants. I'm not joking....that is the ONLY reason he is asking you out. So if you want him to get to know you personality then you have to dangle sex infront of him for a bit. But it sounds like you're in HS so I think it's going to be difficult only b/c you don't have the wiles yet and there are plenty of other young females that will have sex with him.
So yeah...just be yourself...and see where it leads. *shrug* good luck
2006-10-13 11:55:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just don't wanna get hurt? First of all you wouldn't be friends with him if he was going to hurt you. And also if he said he just wants to be friends for now, then let him be friends with you. It doesn't mean he's going to ask you out sooner or later.
I cans ay the exact same thing to you and not ask you out.
Depending on how you act while being yourself.... you should be youself.
2006-10-13 11:52:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should always be yourself,and I also think that is very important to be friends first that way you get to know that person better and decide if you'll like him as a boyfriend a prefer been friends.
2006-10-13 11:57:07 · answer #5 · answered by Emily L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right! Just be yourself. Getting hurt is always a possibility in any relationship. But the rewards so outweigh the pain, it's always worth the gamble. You'll find this to be true your entire life.
2006-10-13 11:54:02 · answer #6 · answered by Arnold M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's the only way is just being yourself for him to really get to know you just by being you.and like you said maybe getting to know him a little more you might see that he's not for you after all.
if it ends up working out in the end all the best to you both.
2006-10-13 11:57:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
def not,
you should never have to be by yourself. Unfortunately with things like this patients is needed and you will eventually find out. We risk getting hut for people we love and that is part of life,
gd luck :-)
2006-10-13 11:55:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just relax for a bit. it shouldn't be this stressing. if u realy like the person u should be fine iwth it right? just let what happends happen. if he stays then he dose like ur personlity if he dosen't then he realy dosen't like ur personlity. and u should be with someone who dosen't. but getting to know eachother first is important just give it time.
2006-10-13 11:54:44 · answer #9 · answered by punk girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe by the time you roll around to your 14th birthday this will all work itself out. Hang on until then, if it's at all possible.
2006-10-13 11:53:20 · answer #10 · answered by regnaD kciN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋