2006-10-13 11:50:04 · 26 answers · asked by raidersbitch05 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Tell him how you feel and all will be good.
2006-10-13 11:51:35 · answer #1 · answered by JistheRealDeal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't dwell on the past. All you can do is move on and look at the future ahead. Now that you are about to get married and give vows to this man you can't make those same mistakes a 2nd time.
2006-10-13 23:32:40 · answer #2 · answered by lmsweeden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to forgive and to forget and start your new life together with a clean slate for both of you. If you are marrying in a church, a pastor should be able to counsel you beforehand.
I recommend a premarital counseling session just so you know you guys are on the same page about everything. Take one of those marriage quizzes together so that you will know what if any differences you have before you take that big step in 2 weeks. Better to find out now and resolve them so you can go into your future with him happily, with no fears and no regrets.
Best wishes!
2006-10-13 18:56:53 · answer #3 · answered by Sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of mistake...if it's a big mistake...you know you can't go back in times. He doesn't know about it yet do he? If he does, tell him how you feel and that you will try your best not to make the same mistake anymore. Try to do something really sweet and romantic for your man.
2006-10-14 02:12:06 · answer #4 · answered by strawberry_kiss_gurlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why make anything up? Everyone has made a mistake.You are getting married and he is marrying you for a reason! Just enjoy these times and look forward to you life ahead! No regrets-it makes you the person you are.
Good luck!
2006-10-13 18:58:14 · answer #5 · answered by Willow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you just decide that both of you get a clean slate to start off this marriage? If you feel like you have to make up for past mistakes at this point then you really should reconsider this whole marriage thing.
2006-10-13 18:54:26 · answer #6 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Does he know about the mistakes already? If he does maybe he doesn't care about them, he loves you not what you've done or not done. If he doesn't know then you need to be honest with him. You cannot let the guilt continue to eat you up you'll end up a very unhappy person.
2006-10-13 21:41:49 · answer #7 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't.. You are starting a new life together so just get smart and don't make the same mistakes twice.
2006-10-13 18:55:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize and leave it at that. Don't continually bring it up and remind him of your misdeeds. Just let time and the prospect of a healthy and loving marriage heal the wounds of the past. A marriage is a fresh start, after all. :)
2006-10-13 19:03:06 · answer #9 · answered by A.R. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you think gettin married will be tter for the both of you? Its not you need to tell him at least now you both will know how this marriage will trun out ........trun out in a good way or a bad way Its all about communication and honesty!
2006-10-13 21:57:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You getting married, be happy and leave everything in the past and move on with your future...If what you did was so bad, you should reconsider getting married....
2006-10-15 04:44:39 · answer #11 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋