How did it feel? Did you confess?
2006-10-13 11:48:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah, just a few months ago I cheated on my boyfriend of 2 years. I don't blame myself, because I was very unhappy, and as many times as I told him that he needed to change his ways, he never did, he never did anything to help what we had. I didn't feel love or affection, he was ignoring me for his friends, so I met someone else, fell in love and cheated.
when It was happening, all I could think about was the guy infront of me, how gorgeous he was and how much I was in love with him. we went out everywhere together, he called me everyday and we couldn't keep our hands off of each other.
Then weeks later my bf started to wonder why I wasn't making time for him or wanted to sleep with him anymore. So I told him that I wanted time to myself and he got suspicious. sometimes he would even call me on days that I was with the other guy, and I wouldn't answer. So one day he came down to my job as I was clocking out and decided to follow me. this was also a day that my other guy was gonna pick me up from work. My ex followed me, saw the guy and wanted to kill me. So that night I told him, I felt completely cold and angry. I told him why I did it and why I wanted to be with someone else, he swore revenge on me.
He was unhappy and enraged and wanted to slit my throat. He even tried to rape me one day, I can't imagin how hurt he is, bacause he never really put much effort into our relationship in the first place and now he's mad that I'm gone.
It was my first time cheating and I felt justified everytime I though about my ex's flaws. I wanted to be with the other guy and everytime I saw my ex I felt a little odd. he would hug me and It felt repulsive, he would kiss me and I wanted to vomit. He sounded so hurt when he would point out how I didn't want to hold his hand anymore. but all these things however, I did do with my other guy and it felt damned good.
well, I forgave myself, I didn't blame myself at all for what happened and I actually still feel good about it since I gained happiness from it. I look at it as though It was destined to happen. I needed to get away from him someway. If I was happy with him then I wouldn't have cheated. Well the "other" guy is now my boyfriend/fiancee and we are inseperable. we are completly happy with each other and I try not to look back.
2006-10-13 12:12:24 · answer #1 · answered by Red Crayon Aristocrat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've cheated plenty of times...until I met the man that I decided I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. I've never been unfaithful to him, yet I cheated on every single guy I'd been with up to that point.
Cheating is, in marriages, a symptom of a greater problem, but for young people cheating is a way of reaffirming freedom, learning to deal with temptation and guilt.
Did I feel guilt? Sometimes. Sometimes I felt justified if I wasn't getting enough attention or if I was mad at the boyfriend in question for whatever reason. I confessed only when it was necessary (in otherwords, I confessed only when I wanted to punish the boyfriend and I always did it with tears and what looked like true guilt).
I think my mother said it best, "It's not cheating if you're not married". That freed me up morally to participate in a lot of learning experience I might not have otherwise and I don't regret a minute of it.
2006-10-13 11:55:51 · answer #2 · answered by A.R. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I stay In Texas And The TAKS attempt Are like the 300 and sixty 5 days end checks And cheating Is an computerized 0 Plus You Fail For the finished 3 hundred and sixty 5 days which ability you're able to desire to repeat That Grade!!! And sure I Took the risk final 3 hundred and sixty 5 days Cuz My chum mandatory some solutions and that i Gave some To Him!! Didnt Get caught the two! I never Cheated Tho Cuz Im To stable For That...3.8 GPA
2016-11-28 04:14:50 · answer #3 · answered by milhollen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a naughty girl... I'd have to say... yes I have...
I felt horrible the first time... and yes i did confess
by the second time I felt not so bad cuz my man deserved it... and no... i didn't confess the second time...
I still struggle to stay good... but I need to just cut off all my guy friends... i guess i'm incapable of having guy friends that don't become obsessed with me... that sounds really over-confident, but i honestly don't know y they like me so much...
anyhoo... it is my opinion that everyone cheats sometime... and if they don't cheat, then they get divorced (if they're married)
2006-10-13 11:55:18 · answer #4 · answered by silvr_chyk_serah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - I don't believe in cheating. If you want someone else then divorce your spouse first.
I have been cheated on after 20 years of marriage and it hurt like H**L. I would never treat another person like that. I would break off the relationship first. I wouldn't even get involved with another person until I had filed for divorce.
2006-10-13 11:54:21 · answer #5 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Good at the time because the guy I was with was a jerk. No I didn't confess I just dumped his a$$.
2006-10-13 11:51:04 · answer #6 · answered by Kenya 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've never cheated because I would never want to be the person in the position where someone has cheated on me. It's just wrong to play with people's emotions.
2006-10-13 11:50:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
two or three times. but that's only because i felt that the guy was a jerk. i only confessed to one of the cheating commited. i felt horrible and miserable and... karma bit me in the ***
2006-10-13 11:53:05 · answer #8 · answered by Cathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because I have been cheated on and I know how it feels when a partner cheats. I will never put anyone though that
2006-10-13 11:51:10 · answer #9 · answered by wantme_comegetme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think it's worth the trouble; too much heartache if you're found out(I've been a shoulder to one too many friends who've done it). If you feel a real need for it, then more than likely the relationship you're in right now isn't worth keeping. Besides, how would you feel if it was done to you?
2006-10-13 11:54:21 · answer #10 · answered by Dani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋