Hi I am really shy when it comes to girls, and I am afraid of being humiliated after regected going out with someone. I am not very popular, but I still am a little. How can I build up the courage to ask someone out?
2006-10-13 11:47:50 · 10 answers · asked by Eric S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By the way, I am not sure if I am that attractive either. I am a bit on the heavy side...
2006-10-13 11:51:59 · update #1
I am also in 8th grade. Never gotten into girls yet.
2006-10-13 11:53:53 · update #2
Be BOLD!!!!! Rejection sucks, I know, but your only on this earth for so long.. Take advantage of the time you have. And if you do decide to ask someone out, don't have a serious attitude, so, if they do reject you, you can kind of just wipe it off your shoulder. Getting rejected by one person isn't the end of the world.. Your bound to have someone accept sooner or later ;) I'm a girl and I know I hate it when I know that someone likes me, but they beat around the bush. Girls like it when a guy isn't afraid to just walk up and show they're interest in them.
2006-10-13 11:57:13 · answer #1 · answered by minneapolis16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably will never build up the courage unless you are willing to take risk. Yes, you may be turned down, but don't stop there. There are many more fish in the sea. Continue asking girls out eventually you will connect with the right one. Somebody may already have a crush on you and like you is to shy to make the first move. It's up to you to move first. What is the most that can happen to you? For the girl to say no? She may even humiliate you. A little humilation never hurt no one, she can't poke you in the eye or bodily harm you, if she does you can sue her, lol! Don't let this stop you. If she acts that way, she is not worth it anyway.
2006-10-13 18:56:37 · answer #2 · answered by Qusan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell yourself that you are going to ask a girl out know matter what. If that doesn't help then write her notes asking if she would go out with a guy like you. Describe yourself but don't give any clues that its you. Put the note in her locker where she can see it.
Good luck,
cloggingkitty
2006-10-13 18:53:45 · answer #3 · answered by cloggingkitty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, my advice is to get to know the girl as a friend and you might find that they are better as friends. Those friends can help you build your confidence for a different girl you're crazy about later on:)
2006-10-13 18:54:24 · answer #4 · answered by aluminum22rocker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only grade 8. Try to focus on other things and later on when you are ready you will meet the right girl who likes you for you.
2006-10-13 19:14:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
very gd question,
i had the same problem, personaly i listnined to music and it encouraged me greatly but thats not for evryone. If you really like someone and your too shy to tell them give them a note or letter. never use emails or instant messengers to tell them.
best of luck m8.
2006-10-13 18:52:44 · answer #6 · answered by dnegel2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi im a girl who is shy too.so don't feel bad. Maybe if you ask her out she might feel the same.but if you get rejected, its okay cause then they are not worth it.If you want a girl to like you, impress her, but don't make a fool of yourself by doing it.
2006-10-13 18:52:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and say Hi to them and know that someday someone will say yes back to you
2006-10-13 18:54:34 · answer #8 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
practice in the mirror
2006-10-13 18:49:58 · answer #9 · answered by i luv u so much 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm....jus go up 2 her nd tell her how u feel, but dont sound desperate nd b very calm....or u can giv her a sweet note (thats wat mii friend did 2 her crush)
2006-10-13 18:51:55 · answer #10 · answered by Patty's Tat 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋