My brother is in second grade, and he won't stand up to this bully in his school. The kid will say to my brother you're such a bad football player and you don't know how to throw a football, when he threw an amazing pass and the bully was the one who dropped it. He teases him too. Any suggestions?
2006-10-13 11:43:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
I think my brother is shy about it, and he won't talk about it to me or my parents, and he doesn't say anything to the bully when the bully teases him and says stuff to him.
2006-10-13 11:43:58 · update #1
Victims of bullies are scared of the bully. They are afraid
to say anything because of what the bully might say or do.
The only way to help your brother is to tell your parents right away. They will know how to handle it. Just stand by your brother. If possible tell his teacher as well. You are a real hero for helping him this way.
2006-10-13 11:54:21 · answer #1 · answered by Precious Gem 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your brother should follow the " good conduct" rules. If this is happening at school and your brother feels that the bully will cause him physical harm then he should talk to the school counselor that's why they are there. If your brother feels that this is just the bully "talking trash" your brother is doing the right thing, some people are non confrontational and it sounds like your brother is one of those people. If it is really bothering you talk to your parents. But don't interfere in the issue, by talking to the bully, you will cause more problems for your brother
2006-10-14 03:28:36 · answer #2 · answered by Vee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello there love. Well, that's a whole lot to chew on. Firstly, If you can,go and see the nearest doctor as you need medical help to balance your conditions. Then you will see things a little better. You definetly need a counsellor when you can but for the obvious problems with family.....you are a bright girl and realise you have been wrongly treated so that is half the battle to healing my love. The best thing is to cut yourself off from any abuse from family. You do not need that destructive influence near you as you have enough to deal with. you sound depressed -not surprising. That is something a doctor will also be able to help you with. Write down all the bad things in a list and keep it on paper and not in your head so it cant fill up your mind so much. Your friend sounds a good friend so lean on her but remember to let her lean back on you if she has a bad day too. Give and take is always a good option in all relationships. try to get to a doctor is the first step. Good luck and if it is in your head-put it on paper and that will help.
2016-05-21 23:49:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Second grade, there are bullies in the second grade? He's a kid make sure he understands that the bully isn't attacking him personally, he must have problems at home or something else and your brother just seems to be an easy target, tell him to ignore the bully and walk away, why stoop to his level.
2006-10-19 13:00:55 · answer #4 · answered by graciegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It only take for one day when the bully catches your brother on a horrible day and then the bully will learn that messing with other kids will have to stop one day but to help your brother out, how about if you tell the bully to leave your little brother along and that if he needs help to throw a ball how about if he justs asks.
2006-10-19 02:37:07 · answer #5 · answered by jamaicaladydread 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well probably the "bully" has self esteem issues. Therefore because he knows he "sucks" and realizes he will get fun of he makes fun of your brother so it seems that he sucks more and therefore the "bully" feels better about himself. basically this whole bullying thing is just a plot for the bully to feel good about himself.
2006-10-13 11:48:40 · answer #6 · answered by No_other_lover 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why should your brother give in to what the bully wants? Obviously your brother is a lot smarter than you are.
2006-10-13 22:53:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try having one of your friends (a guy) ask him about that certain person (i.e. "I heard that kid over there is being mean to other kids your age. Any of your friends said anything?") From experience with my own sons, this usually works. It's alot easier to talk to someone that is not your family. Good Luck!
2006-10-19 06:37:49 · answer #8 · answered by Lizz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can talk to him .and then u have to convince him that he is good and u try to solve the issue with that bully through their teacher and u must make him selfconfident as he will meet in his life many idiots as this BULLY.
2006-10-19 11:40:39 · answer #9 · answered by drfunky1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone and let him handle it. You won't be there to help/protect him forever. He needs to learn for himself. You can be there in case he is attacked by this bully and protect him and teach him some 'moves'. Good luck.
2006-10-13 11:47:45 · answer #10 · answered by GP 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋