i've just met this girl 2 days ago. it was very quick. but im sure she likes me. we exchanged numbers and then she called me about an hour later. we spoke for a bit like getting to know each other a bit and that. i told her i'll be out of town for about a week and that i1ll call her when i get back. she said she'll be waiting for my call ;-)
then i said i might even call her before i get back she said she'll really like that or to just "text her". i feel it would be better if i text her instead of calling however, i really suck @ text messaging i'wouldnt have any idea where to start. i want your help girl and guys. i really like her and i dont want to mess it up. What to dooooo?
2006-10-13 11:26:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be too available while you are on your trip. Call her first don't text her. Two reasons- You want her to know that she is important enough for you to pick up the phone. I think that texting is too informal and should be saved for after you and her have spoken a few times...save it for your friends and when this girl is more that a friend. Secondly, you admitted that it is not your best medium for conversation so then why do it when you are still trying to show the girl your A game. If I were you I would call her about 2 days into your trip. Don't talk too long. Just a hi, I got here okay..flight was great, this is what we have planned, you have been on my mind, what are you up to this week...can't wait to take you out. Then if that goes really well than I would text her a day later and just say hi...not a huge conversation. If you texts you back then cool. Make plans for when you get back and then have fun on your trip and let her miss ya!
2006-10-13 11:45:45 · answer #1 · answered by 1978 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, most people prefer texting than calling. But if you don't like texting, then I'd say go for the call. I would call her after you get back because then you'll have more to talk about. You can tell her what you did for the whole 2 weeks. And then when your done talking, ask her what she's been up to. Then ask her if she wants to hang out sometime.
2006-10-13 11:29:46 · answer #2 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Voice messages
2016-05-21 23:46:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
texting is simple, just say the same thing you woul in your text as you would on the phone. Start with, Hey how are you yoday? If your ballsy add beautiful- I love it when guys do that!! Then just make it about her- of course. its not that difficlut, just be yourself and the good thing about text is you can think about what you are going to say before you say it and you can always delete it and start over. Good luck.
2006-10-13 11:51:13 · answer #4 · answered by Katie W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and your question is? 1. how to text message. 2. What to text her? 3. if you should text her or call her?
Be more specific or your not going to get many answers!
2006-10-13 11:29:27 · answer #5 · answered by precious1982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok go to the menu on your phone, and select messaging, then hit send text, select her number, or put it in, then to type, look at the numbers and hit them however many times needed to get that letter, like 2abc to get a "b" hit 2 twice, make sense? good luck, aand the more you do it the better you get
2006-10-13 11:30:59 · answer #6 · answered by Ally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about:
Hi. Enjoyed talking w/u last wk. How are u doing 2day?
Stop stressing. Just drop her a quick note to let her know you are thinking about her.
2006-10-13 11:30:28 · answer #7 · answered by Apple21 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
text her asking hi how have you been? tell her about where you are and ask what she has been up too? - and thats from 4 girls discussing your problem!!
ps wait and ask her out when you get home!
2006-10-13 11:28:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
text her and say something like...thinking about you and hoping we can can together when I get back into town.
2006-10-13 11:28:55 · answer #9 · answered by shelshe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you obviously like her alot. start off with "how you doing . or hows your day been" and let things go on from there.Good Luck =D
2006-10-13 11:31:19 · answer #10 · answered by D21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋