I was wondering. This guy that I am interested in, is also interested in me...we don't spend a lot of time together due to busy schedules. I call him more than he calls me and he says he likes it, but I'm starting to feel like I am left dangling here waiting for him to call me on his own convenience. If I just stop calling him, do you think he will come running?
2006-10-13 11:21:59 · 8 answers · asked by ladyophelia7777 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he may come running and he may not, but if your the one who's making most of the phone calls then maybe it would be in your best interest to back off a bit...see sometimes we do things that we do not realize we are doing...what has happened here is you have created a calling pattern...you don't realize it because you are the one making the phone calls, most of the time and he has picked up on your pattern...thats why he don't call as much because he already know that you are going to call.... what you need to do is surprise him and stop calling...he'll take notice they always do...but the more you keep calling...he won't feel a need to call you... and he'll end up losing interest and he won't pick up his phone at all...so just back off and see what happens....if he doesnt seem too interested...then i would just move on.
2006-10-13 11:50:40 · answer #1 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Unless you're both still in high school.
Generally speaking, an adult male who is interested in a woman will call...no matter how busy they are...if interested. If you're doing all of the calling, that's a sign. Read the book, "He's Just Not that into you".
2006-10-13 11:25:08 · answer #2 · answered by Cool-K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayb if u stop callin him he might think that ur not interested in him no more im not really sur tho
2006-10-13 11:25:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's really interested in you, Yes.
2006-10-13 11:27:14 · answer #4 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm im probably younger than u and i know this...
GUYS ARE SUPPOSED TO COME TO YOU....GIRLS DONT CHASE BOYS, BOYS CHASE GIRLS! so don't call him anymore, if he is as interested in you as he says he is, then he will "chase" after you and call you. give it time.
2006-10-13 11:32:02 · answer #5 · answered by KatieRose ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope. tried and tested im afraid. cut loose before u fall for him and really get hurt
2006-10-13 11:25:27 · answer #6 · answered by Belosnezhka (aka Gex) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might, but only if he truly is interested. If not, then he won't.
2006-10-13 11:24:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he will or maybe he has other commitments and that is why he dose not call you have you asked him?
2006-10-13 11:25:01 · answer #8 · answered by PAULINA S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋