Alright. Me and her talked for like 2 hours a night on msn for a few days lately. She has a boyfriend, and we were talking as if she wanted to break up with him and get together with me. Examples..
We talked about home coming, i asked if her boyfriend would be mad if we danced. She said he won't be there, and he won't know what goes on. I said okay tell me what we'll do, then i listed things like hug dance etc. And when i got to hug, i said.. more? and she said depends, would you accept more?..
Before she went to bed she said 'what's your cellphone number, so i can txt you tonite when i can't sleep because of how much i'm thinking'.. We texted that night and we were talking about how she needs to sort stuff out before she's ready. I told her i would wait for her, and do whatever it would take to help her sort things faster, and she thanked me etc. then went to bed.
Today we went for a walk at lunch to discuss everything, and she was afraid to hug because her.. continued.
2006-10-13 11:17:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because her boyfriend's best friend was near us, and she didn't want him to say anything because we were alone together. So after that i didnt see her the rest of the day. At around 4:30 she texts me to see what's up, i say nothing, ask her if she's doing anything this weekend, and she sais she's busy all weekend. I say aww okay, and 15 minutes later she texts me saying.
Re: im sorry. i want to tell you sumthin. i dont like you as more than a friend just so you know. sorry.
When i talked to her on msn she said she had to go and that was that.
I honestly don't understand it.. From the way she talked it sounded as if she wanted to go out. She said i was the first person to ever tell her she was beautiful, and that made her blush.
Was it something I did?.. Any help is appreciated.
2006-10-13 11:19:27 · update #1
Also, should i bother dancing with her at homecoming or even trying?.. From the way she said it i just don't know how to feel.
2006-10-13 11:20:20 · update #2
Thanks for the answers, and dasc, I did not ask her for 'more', she offered more in hopes i'd accept it..
2006-10-13 11:46:47 · update #3
She's probably just as confused as you are. She likes her boyfriend, but she also like you but in a different way. You shouldn't provoke her to break up w/ her bf. Just wait for her and things will slide into place like magic!!!
Hope this helps!!!
2006-10-13 11:29:25 · answer #1 · answered by Toto! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why wouldn't you still dance with her? just because she does not like you the way you would like her too does not mean that you can not be her friend. i do have to admit it does sound like she led you on a little, but maybe you read more into what she was saying.but now she has come clean and told you she don't like you that way. so move on from there. go ahead ask her to dance.but i do want to add that you should not be asking her for {more} when you know she already has a boyfriend.
2006-10-13 18:44:08 · answer #2 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to be the rebound, if she didn't like her boyfriend she would still be wishy washy on everything. Just because she doesn't want to stay with him doesn't always mean she wants to go out with you. No offense just speaking from experience.
2006-10-13 18:21:27 · answer #3 · answered by fyrechick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I think you made yourself look to needy. You didn't make her feel any sort of attraction. You know what you should do? You should go to www.doubleyourdating.com, and sign up for the newsletter. My friend does, and I was reading one of them, and it was pretty good....
2006-10-13 18:23:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you not understand ? she is somewhat confused and upset help her through this.
2006-10-13 18:21:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋