Hello my name is Trevor and I was curious to what you girls thoughts are on why some people are afraid of me just because I am a serious person. Because that is all it is because I am genuinaly a nice guy but can be to serious for my age which is 24. so my question is what is the reason people think I am scarry. Another question is would girls my age go out with someone that is a serious but nice guy because I have wondered if that is why I have not had a girl friend yet. please help thank you.
2006-10-13 11:13:43 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is for Naomi's Question. I am serious about everything.
2006-10-13 11:24:04 · update #1
Sounds to me like, you might be a little intimidating. Maybe some girls are more intimiadated by you!!! I am sure that you are very sweet and nice, but do you show that when you are convesing with women?? Do you kinda have a little charm in you?? There is nothing wrong with being serious, women like men who don't always joke around and are practicle, it shows your mature. Try to be a little more charming, which I am sure you know how to do, and believe me the women will come.... hey and your only 24 so don't stress, your time will come!!!!
2006-10-13 11:17:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women are not so much scared as they are puzzled. You can't honestly be serious all the time life is too short have some fun let the woman know you have a since of humor. I understand I dont want a childish relationship either but I want to be with someone who can make me laugh and show me a good time. What makes you want to be so serious?? Honestly losen up some its okay to be serious, I understand your point But no one will know youre a nice guy if you act like a tight wad.
2006-10-13 18:26:50 · answer #2 · answered by Some1Special 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has their own personality... I think it wouldn't be a problem after people got to know you. Is there any other reason why people would get that impression? Get to know a girl and befriend her then she can make the decision if you are a nice guy or not.
2006-10-13 18:21:03 · answer #3 · answered by Marla C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you come off arrogant. You maybe so serious that they do not even dare to talk to you. You need to loose up at least a little. Enjoy life and what is has to offer. You do not need to be a clown but chill. If you like someone then talk to them and once they get to know you it should be okay.
2006-10-13 18:18:29 · answer #4 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom said "don't ever trust a guy with no sense of humor"..that was good advice. Who wants to be around someone serious when there are plenty of easy going, fun, cheery people? The world sucks enough withouth hanging around with a dud!
2006-10-13 18:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most girls put personality and 'someone who makes me laugh" over looks and money. Maybe you shouldn't be so serious, personally it can be really boring and monotonous. Good Luck
2006-10-13 18:17:44 · answer #6 · answered by fyrechick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would love to. I am 21 and I have been told I am like what you are describing to a T. It is not scary at all I find it refreshing. Write to me darlin,..I'd love to chat a little if you wouldn't mind.
cheers
2006-10-13 18:20:59 · answer #7 · answered by scully_22ps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not scary, just less fun. a guy that can make me smile is a huge plus in my book. just out of curiousity, what kind of serious are u? serious about absolutely everything, or just serious about ur job?
2006-10-13 18:19:00 · answer #8 · answered by naomi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they just haven't had a chance to get to know you. Try making friends first and opening up a little about what interests you.
2006-10-13 18:17:25 · answer #9 · answered by KC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you continue being yourself then yes the girls will like you too good luck
2006-10-13 18:15:54 · answer #10 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋