Sorry if the title sounded rude. But I have this friend thats a guy and I'm in love him. But, I dont think he likes me back. We always see eatchouther at school and he might come over my house next weekend, and we always laugh and have fun together. We have alot in common. BUT a couple months ago he told me the person he liked and kept going on about it. That really hurt me. And he knows I like him! He doesnt know I love him though. I've loved him for 1 year and 4 months now. I'm almost 14, but I know not to through the word love around. I always think about him and everything. WHY CAN"T HE JUST TRY TO SEE THAT I'M GREAT FOR HIM?! Does he like me know? I don't want to talk about it with him. And I never ask anyone out. Should I try to get over him...again? HELP!!
2006-10-13 11:08:23 · 20 answers · asked by Katie M 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG, seriously, if u have that good of a relationship with a guy without actually going out with him, I wouldnt go out with him. You want to stay friends, because dating each other might make one of u realize u dont like each other the way u thought u did. Then ull break up, thinking ull stay friends, and u most likely wont. If this guy is that special to u, u dont want him to end up being just another one of those guys u date for like a month or so. Wat u have is a strong friendship that could get ruined with a hurtful break up. Be happy with wat u have, a great friend. And u will always be friends. And remeber, u have both of ur lives ahead of u to date if the time is right...
2006-10-13 11:17:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Also he might like you, but he prefers you the chase for the other girl and he prefers not to seee that youvare the girl that is great for him, so try ro find yourself another guy friend and ask him out your guy will soon be near you trying to win your heart again
2006-10-13 11:13:24 · answer #2 · answered by Non Tina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't force someone to like you. If he knows that you like him, then thats all you can do. Maybe he doesnt like you like that and simply still sees you as a friend. Hes telling you about this girl he likes because hes really excited about it and just sees you as a friend that wants to listen. Maybe he doesnt want to ruin you guys friendship.
2006-10-13 11:12:45 · answer #3 · answered by Eugene 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first of all im availible. Second the same thing happened to me but it is switched around.and now she has a bf. im mad but what can u do. u missed out. if you still love him that much tell him this weekend by asking him out take a chance. When the girl that i loved got a bf i got mad bu ti moved on and im still happy.
2006-10-13 11:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by Squeaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y!A isn't for infants under the age of 13. you need to lower back to the sand container such as your Barbies, little female. because of fact a sand container become the final place I heard the question "Why are men so dumb?"
2016-10-19 08:38:25 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys can be consider dumb because they don't realize that theres someone right in front of their face who likes them, who's crazy about them and would give anything to be with them.
which also gets on my nerves
and once you have stop liking them they like you
boys are slow thinkers
i liked a guy and now that i stopped liking him, he likes me
maybe if you pretend to not like him hell start liking you
you never know
-goodluck
2006-10-13 11:14:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
14, right?
Must be harsh to ba an old maid at 14.
Get used to him as a freind, because he obviously sees you a that.
2006-10-13 11:12:10 · answer #7 · answered by George Curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense ( I know young people HATE hearing this), but you may not actually LOVE him if you are only 14. You have a lot of growing up to do and discovering of who you are before you know who you want.
2006-10-13 11:11:22 · answer #8 · answered by Kevin P 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Honey I'm 32 and just found love. There is no way you love him. You love the idea of him. Get over it. Your too young to feel that way.
2006-10-13 11:11:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Doesn't that make you the dumb one, if you still like him and he has feelings for someone else?
Don't call someone dumb just because they don't like you. We can't help who we are attracted to, we can only control how we manage that attraction.
2006-10-13 11:14:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋