help thats me in the picture but i lack confidence when it comes to girls should or what please help
2006-10-13 10:55:41 · 13 answers · asked by bill m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girls like a sense of humor, and for a guy to be confident, but humble. Try joking w people in general; as you feel more comfortable, start joking w a girl that you'd like to get to know. The humor will help to put you both at ease, and it's a "light touch" to let a girl know that you're interested, and will give her the chance to respond. She may joke back, tease you, or just smile -- it's all good.
Good luck, and have fun!
p.s. -- yes, the picture is too small -- maybe you could start a 360' page for larger and different pictures.
2006-10-13 11:03:32 · answer #1 · answered by Joya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should lack confidence from what i can tell of the picture yoiu dont have anything to worry about>>>. You should hold your head up high and just be yourself and let the girls like you for you and not what they want you to be... So keep showing your stuff and be who you are
2006-10-13 18:00:42 · answer #2 · answered by hellcat0613 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, put your shirt back on. Now, do you have any kind of personality or were you just depending on your muscles to get you where you want to go. Do you have a job? Hobbies? Do you know how to ask a girl about what interests her? It might not be guys who pose for pictures with no shirt. If you guys spent more time approaching females as just ordinary people to take a minute to conversate with instead of wild elusive and possibly dangerous creatures to catch and conquer you might get somewhere and then you wouldn't have to be so shy.
2006-10-13 18:06:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having self confidence isn't about what you look like, it's about who you are. It's true that people see the outer you first, but the inner you should always take over. If you are good on the inside, it will show on the outside, and someone will be attracted to you for that reason alone.
2006-10-13 17:59:50 · answer #4 · answered by Special K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's all about the total package!!!Not just how pretty the wrapping is.....Some of the most beautiful people in the world are the ugliest because of what's inside....I'm not saying that's you're problem....look inside instead of focusing so much on the outside and maybe you will find the answer.
2006-10-13 18:00:52 · answer #5 · answered by Mechelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want a girl do not show her this photo! you are nice but girls don't care only about muscles ect! we have feelings and we want you to do the same talk with her be nice kind a little sweet but please do not show her a foto like this one!!!! she will believe you are a stupid guy who spend his life in a gym and he has no brain no feelings ! oh and think possitive stay in front of a mirror and say every day in every way i am getting better and better and i am the best!! good luck!
2006-10-13 18:02:20 · answer #6 · answered by artis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you should rephrase that question so it makes sense...
secondly, a nice body is just that, nice! but what really matters is who you are on the inside, really, it's true ask any girl (with a brain) and be yourself. you don't want a girl who doesn't like you for who you are trust me it's not worth it.
2006-10-13 18:01:56 · answer #7 · answered by Blu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always be yourself no matter what girls like it when a guy is real and not playing games with them good luck to you
2006-10-13 17:58:17 · answer #8 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The picture is too small to judge. Its not bad from what I can see.
2006-10-13 17:58:46 · answer #9 · answered by Ril-Gania Veritas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confidence??? why??? if that's you then girls would be the one not confident enough to go after you for in fear of that you are take
2006-10-13 17:59:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋