Boyfriend moves out cause he doesnt want to raise my son, 9 years old spent two months trying to figure out where he needs to be and in those two months gave me $700.00 but moved to a place where he has to pay 900.00 a month. Should I be angry?
2006-10-13 10:48:59 · 19 answers · asked by postal_marg 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to find out the real reason he left. So you know if it is real because of your son or if it is because he want space and we all know what that means. I don't think it has to do with money. I think you might be feeling hurt on that part sometimes guys go through this thing where they feel like things are just to much so they run. Just like us girl but they don't do it the same way . and that might be what he's doing but most of all if you really care about each other you need to talk about what going on so you both know where the other is in this. that way on one is lost. Or hurt!
2006-10-13 11:01:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If bart Simpson said dont ahve a cow then surely Milhouse Van Houten and Ralph Wiggum; he's injected romance into the life of his teacher, Edna Krabappel; and he brought down an illegal French winery during his brief semester abroad. So what if he's also befouled the Springfield Community Church with phony hymns or prank-called Moe's Tavern several times a day for the last few years? It all balances out, right? At age 10, Bart has managed to live out a number of dreams: He has starred in his own short-lived TV series (with his idol, Krusty the
2006-10-13 10:50:56 · answer #2 · answered by Sid Snot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think so. If the guy you are dating does NOT want to help with your son. Move on, you need someone in your life who will be willing to take care of you and your family. I know he isn't the real father but he should understand that if he is with you, he has your son too.
2006-10-13 10:52:42 · answer #3 · answered by Ril-Gania Veritas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should be mad at him
and he should not be your boyfriend at all now..
who's name is on the lease fro the apartment you live in now? if he signed with you..you can make him pay some money for a few months until you find a new place..
but get rid of him and stop calling him your boyfriend.he should be your EX
2006-10-13 10:54:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please dont be angry, Be glad
Guys like that are not worth it. You can find a better guy who would accept you as a family. Eventually, that is what a woman wants, huband who treats you and ur children well and your kid need a good father too.
God saved you from him.
So be glad.
2006-10-13 10:53:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anne H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't waste time being angry, but I would think about why I was with someone who, knowing you have a kid, is going to hold it against you in terms of commitment.
2006-10-13 10:51:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would be. Sounds like he used you till something better cam along. He should have been paying half the household expenses.
2006-10-13 10:51:13 · answer #7 · answered by roxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what he is spending. If he decided he didn't want to be with you, consider yourself the lucky one.
Move on. He could have stayed and led you on, then bolted later.
2006-10-13 10:52:08 · answer #8 · answered by David S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is the father of your son?? and really if hes got enough to pay the rent and to give you cash why get mad...
2006-10-13 10:53:55 · answer #9 · answered by bgbc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. but he has to pay for the insurance even if he doesn't see the child
2006-10-13 10:51:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋