My mom has nothing to with my kids ever since my sister had a baby. I wouldnt mind but my kids wander why because they use to see them alot before the baby. Now they dont see them at all my mom even goes by our house everyday to go to work . But she doesnt even stop. They take my sisters little girl every where. I mean every where. Im not jealous. I just am tired of trying to explain why to my kids .That there mamaw and papaw doesnt come around any more. Should i just tell them to have no contact at all with us or what. PLEASE help dont know what to do anymore.
2006-10-13 10:48:22 · 8 answers · asked by Jamie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
have you spoken to your parent about this at all? have you told them how this makes you and your children feel? if not, you should. and if things do not change after you have spoken with them about this, maybe you could try talking to your sister. why not have a nice dinner planned and invite them over. but don't tell your kids that this is what your doing in case the grandparents don't want to come over. but if this all fails then you need to sit down with your kids and tell them the truth stop making excuse for the grandparents nasty behavior. then when its all said and done. let go. it will be hard but what you are going though now is worse.
2006-10-13 12:44:31 · answer #1 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with your parents!!! They probably don't even realize that your upset or that they haven't come around like they used to. Don't keep your kids from their granparents, it will be worst in the long run. I don't have a great relationship with my grandma and it sucks. I mean I am fine and all but it would be nice to be close to her ya know!!! I think you should have a talk with your parents and if they are rude, then you know what you should do, if they are nice and apologetic, then wa la, problem solved!!!!
2006-10-13 18:09:25 · answer #2 · answered by totallylovableandinlove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since they used to come over a lot before, they must care about your kids. Talk to them, let them know how you feel, and work it out. They're family.
2006-10-13 17:56:30 · answer #3 · answered by Heather B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you kids ask the questions to there grandparents.
Let them talk on the phone to their grandparents and say whatever comes out.
2006-10-13 17:53:05 · answer #4 · answered by ee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all do you ask your mom why? and then after explaining how your children feel to her if she dosent change her actitud well you may need to find a gently way to explain your kids what happening hope everuthing work out fine thenk you
2006-10-13 17:54:42 · answer #5 · answered by user 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shame on your Mother!!!! You need to express you and your children's feelings towards her actions. Maw Maws cant play favorites. Its not right. Your children deserve to have a relationship with your mother.
2006-10-13 18:00:24 · answer #6 · answered by jessica s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your mom what this is doing to her grand kids and they feel left out they shouldn't feel that way and I bet maybe they didn't know that their actions were hurting your kids feelings so talk to them and good luck to you
2006-10-13 17:51:42 · answer #7 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom is being a ****** and if talking doesn't resolve it write her off.
There is no excuse for hurting your kids the way she is.
2006-10-13 21:55:09 · answer #8 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋