I've been dating this guy for a few weeks now,he's really nice and i like him alot. We went back to his house for dinner and afterwards fell asleep on his bed,(i decided to stay the night because it was late and i was tired). I had been drinking quite a few beers that night. I remember waking up and this is embarassing but i let out a fart,i dont realise i'm doing it sometimes after i've had beer but it even woke me up and i knew he was awake next to me,i felt so humiliated but i had no control over it. I started to sweat and my heart was pounding because i was so embarassed,ugh i cant believe i did that. I dont know if i can face him now.
2006-10-13 10:28:12 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hahaha! It happened to me before only I was on our second date. I wasn't feeling well and it just kind of slipped out! I laughed and apologized and just made a joke about not feeling good and I threw in that I must just be getting to comfortable. We are still together 2 years later...don't sweat it girlie...it happens... :-)
2006-10-13 10:35:53 · answer #1 · answered by melspags6 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear lady, I have been reading some of your answers, and I don't know that I can be of much help, but you might as well be talking about me, I have done the same thing. You ask "why", well that is very difficult for even me to answer, but I will try for your sake- I think that I would like you, I never had a woman try to please me before!!. I think that there is something about the " I do" and the finality and legal aspects of marriage that destroys some mens feelings of being a man and being their own person. To me, it was like now you are caught and in chains. To be married, you have to give up your own identity, and assume another. You are suppost to become one. That is very hard in some cases. Now, for the sex part, less face it, you see sex in a different way than a man. It is easy for a man to get bored or not get that good feeling with his wife any more. There is a lot to be said about having someone new. That is why some people have open marriages, but I am not saying that is right!. My dear, as we get older we change, and so does our sexual needs. You could be the very best in bed for me, and not be what your hubby needed. It is not anything you do or don't do, it is just a mental thing, and it happens to us, and I don't really know why. Its sort of like the love that we first had, the excitement that we felt, after a few years, where did it go. The sex thing is the same way. If it is any consulation to you dear, 90% of married couples are in the same boat, and 75% of them are cheating!! , and the rest want too. Maybe you should try it and then you will be able to put the ball on his side of the court. This may not be the answer, but it might make you feel better.
2016-05-21 23:40:20 · answer #2 · answered by Lori 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha don't even worry about it! Next time though, don't try to play off like you didn't, just laugh about it with him. I'm sure he didn't care, or at least didn't do more than raise an eyebrow. I promise that it wasn't a deal breaker, unless this guy is unbelievably shallow. Really, you should save your humiliation for something serious- a fart is nothing.
2006-10-13 10:31:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You aren't the first female to break wind in the presence of a male. It is a natural, biological act. Yes, it is embarrassing, but I'm sure he understands. Forget about it. He might tease you a bit, or he might not. If you remain a couple, he will feel free to reciprocate all the time.
There are worse things you could have done.
2006-10-13 12:11:50 · answer #4 · answered by ssbn598 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this guy is really into you he will pass it off with a laugh, and who knows a few years down the line you two could be telling the story of the night you let one slip, dont avoid him for such a silly reason. if he does laugh at you and never lets you live it down and tells others about it then you'll know he is not right for you, but he could be the one and you could be letting him go for a silly natural thing, just think about it everybody does it not only you!!!
2006-10-13 10:34:52 · answer #5 · answered by candice d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG...this happened to me one night about 5 years ago. I was dating the guy. I didn't think he was asleep but he must have been cuz he never said anything to me....and he's the type that would. To this day I'll think about and still be compltely humiliated.....but I do laugh about it to myslef. I have never ever told anyone about this before! I know how you feel! I would just act like nothing happened. have you talked to him since? If so and he hasn't said anything I wouldn't worry about it.
2006-10-13 10:33:28 · answer #6 · answered by Sydney'sMommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've gotta be like 8 years old. If this dude's your boyfriend, then there should be some trust and intimacy between you. If there's anything to this relationship, it should be able to stand some gas. Man, wait 'til you see what LIFE does to you after years and years, a little fart is NOTHING.
2006-10-13 10:33:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Christ girl.... If you can't fart in front of a fella then your gonna be single for a looooooooooooooooong time. Just grab the bull by the horns and call him and arrange to go out. Don't be embarassed by farting, im pretty sure he wouldn't be. JUST MAKE SURE YOU DON'T FOLLOW THROUGH.........OOPS..xx
ps my husband and i fart in front of each other and were still in love after 16 yrs ( and no im not a tramp) xx
2006-10-13 10:37:06 · answer #8 · answered by Nibbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U HAVE TO JUST KICK THAT GUY OUT OF UR MIND AND TAKE NOTHING HAS HAPPENED ,IF U MAKE URSELF REMEMBER THAT NIGHT U WILL BE MORE EMBARASSED..
DONT EVER THINK TO DIE OR TO HURT URSELF, I TELL U ASKING THIS SO PERSONAL QUESTION U HAVE ALREADY GATHERED GUTS TO FACE THE FACT WHICH CANT BE CHANGED, IT IS NOT WORTHY OF REMMEMBERANCE...
2006-10-13 10:37:50 · answer #9 · answered by Syed N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay - I know some guys might say that is gross but HELLO - they do it too!! If this guy acts weird about that or doesn't want to see you again because of that - is he really worth it?!? Better to find out now than when you're reeally into him..ya know?
2006-10-13 10:33:30 · answer #10 · answered by kristinrance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋