Girls, when you start seeing a guy, would you rather the man do the pursuing?
2006-10-13 10:21:43 · 14 answers · asked by happytaffy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like a 50/50 relationship. If you do not pursue than how will he know you really like him or not.
2006-10-13 10:24:21 · answer #1 · answered by Still_21_nheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. I am very old fashioned and I love to be courted and pursued by the guy. But I also do a lot in return to let them know that I am interested in them too...
2006-10-13 17:24:26 · answer #2 · answered by ????? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for me it goes both ways ... if I'm into a guy and am feeling the vibes then yes i will pursue him.. but if i cant tell i wont .. so yes then i would want him to do the pursuing.. how do you feel about it would you want a girl to pursue you ????
2006-10-13 17:28:04 · answer #3 · answered by teresa s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, it's nice to have the Man pursue, cause it really makes a woman feel beautiful and sexy. It really is a confidance booster.
2006-10-13 17:42:56 · answer #4 · answered by bdancer43 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah the man is in charge in any relationship from my point of view.
2006-10-13 17:24:45 · answer #5 · answered by Chaos 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it shows that he is interested and how far he will go to get your attention. It also tells us what kind of guy you are by your approach.
2006-10-13 17:25:52 · answer #6 · answered by blessnevapet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course... it shows interest and the woman feels like he picked her because she's special to him, and not because she happened to drop in his lap (that would be my impression if i would chase a guy)..... well, maybe that's just me... i also like a guy who can take a rejection, and not be a boy about it and understand that it's not the end of the world...
2006-10-13 17:30:47 · answer #7 · answered by catharsis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-10-13 17:24:27 · answer #8 · answered by coconutsmh86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for a while, yeah.... girls like to be pursued... but not too much. don't be too obsessive tho, we don't like that.
2006-10-13 17:30:36 · answer #9 · answered by hawaiiangirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me, i would want him to be the one to come to me- but I like to be respected- hold my hand, talk to me about YOU...Don't talk to me about me...I want to know about the guy, then take me places to let me know that you are not ashamed of me- depending on what you like- playing pool, camping with friends, ect. Once you have come to me and it's obvious you like me, then slowly I will come to you .....
If it were me- some girls are different though...
2006-10-13 17:29:42 · answer #10 · answered by confused 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋