okay i dont kno but lately i have been feeling down. Me and my boy we broke up and i said i wasnt goin to get another relationship with him ir another person for a while but its hard cause i get lonely what do i do. does this mean i obviously have to be with a guy at all times. And plus once i get attention from any boy then i dont want them and then im left begin lonely............ what do i do......... to keep frm beign lonely.................
2006-10-13 09:34:46 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm lonely and I'm used to it I think... But I understand that it is harder to be alone after a relationship... Maybe try sth else - hanging out with friends, family? Just think that it is worth to be free from men sometimes;) And - I'm sure sb WILL appear sooner or later!
2006-10-13 09:38:20 · answer #1 · answered by Lady G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I know how that is. I'm going through a little break up myself and I get really lonely. You know what I do?
I think of things that I need to get done and have been putting them off because they're not that important. Like finish reading a book, start or finish a collage of pictures with friends and or family. I'm going back to school, I'm looking forward to it too because I will make new friends and who knows, maybe even a new boyfriend. Hang out with your family, take pictures of good times with them and reminisce on the good old times. It's good for your heart and soul.
Take up a project. I'm a singer, so I'm started to write a song. Once I'm done, I'm going to record it in a music studio. I spend a lot of my time setting goals for myself and planning on how I'm going to reach them one by one.
Well, hope I was able to help a little. Good luck and love yourself!
2006-10-13 09:46:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can make a lot of plan for your day, like go to the gym, go sauna, a facial, take some interesting lessons like cooking or sewing. Or you can even join a volunteer community to help those how needed help! Then your life will be more meaning than boring/lonely!
2006-10-13 09:40:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have fun while you are single. When you are in a relationship you tend to be always tight up to do anything with your girls. Go out and have fun. It doesn't mean that you have to have a relationship it just means meeting new people and keeping your mind occupied. Sometimes is good to have some free time for you. This is you time now. Enjoy it
2006-10-13 09:38:51 · answer #4 · answered by latina lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey hon. I know that it is absolutely no fun being lonely. I myself have been struggling with that very same problem. I talked to my friend about it and she prayed for me. You have no idea how much it helped me. The very thoght of the Creator of the universe loving me so much He would die for me gives me chills. He will never leave me, even when times are rough He is there for me. So I would suggest maybe finding a friend or family member and have them pray for you. And when you start feeling lonely some other time go to Him, He will listen.
2006-10-13 09:45:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get used to it...do not attach yourself with people (or guy/girl), it's for the best. I am 85% alone at the time, and it's nothing. It's good because I wont get sad just because I was with someone before and now I am not, I can careless. People come people go.
Do things that keep you busy, do something fun for yourself (Like write poetry), get a pet.
2006-10-13 09:44:44 · answer #6 · answered by FeverLust 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's undesirable, on the grounds which you sense a extensive void on your coronary heart and Soul and that no longer something will fill it, different than for a romantic courting. you apart from might sense rather depressed and saddened and sweetness whether there is truthfully ever going to be a "somebody" on your existence. Or, you ask your self whether the Lord intends on making you lonely and depressing for something of your existence. that's what it looks like.
2016-10-02 06:42:52 · answer #7 · answered by riesgo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your mind off yourself. Go visit someone and make them laugh. Help someone in need. You haven't met the right guy yet so get out there and have a little fun and quit belly aching. Worse thing to do now. Get moving.
2006-10-13 09:55:47 · answer #8 · answered by eulasbaby1934 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the club. The point is don't try and fight it. Just embrace it. That's what I do. Just realize you are going to feel this way no matter what. Don't try and fight what you can not change. Just remember that this is the way life is and chances are we are going to die lonely miserable old people, and when we do find someone to love you can sure in the end the ones we love will just die in the end anyway. So why bother.
2006-10-13 09:39:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do things that make you feel good about urself!! Get a new tattoo, go shopping, color ur hair, get ur toes & finger nails done, throw a " ITS ALL ABOUT ME PARTY" & invite all ur friends & some peeps u dont know,Buy a dog, re arrange ur furniture,take a class on something you always wanted to know more about....etc!! GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-13 09:38:25 · answer #10 · answered by BooSha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋