okay so i like this realy hot shy guy... and it is realy hard to talk to him bc he doesn realy hang with the peepl i hang with and now there is this guy and he lyks me and he is rely nice and sorta good lookin but a little shorter and i dont no wut to do bc i hav lykd the realy hot shy guy for a realy long time but im not fo sho if i shod just go with wut is comin for me..... PLEASE HELP!!!!
2006-10-13 09:27:11 · 13 answers · asked by Claire 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound young... Go after the shy guy. its okay if he is shy.
At least try that first, and if he doesn't come around than go out
with the other guy. You are so young, have fun , this is the best
years of your life. Just be safe.
2006-10-13 09:58:58 · answer #1 · answered by wHaT eVeR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Though I know for a fact, that not All! really hot "shy" guys ( I'd like to think I'm hot & shy too!) have tendencies or end up being bad doggies and are "shy" for a reason (just to throw you off guard while he's tryin' to get in your pants), if I were you I'd ask myself this question. - Why isn't he making a move on me? Ok, so he may really BE shy, Why don't I making a move on him? - You know, ' nothing ventured nothing gained'.
I don't think you're too sure that You Really Want this Hot Shy Guy, for one reason you stated "he doesn't really hang with the people I hang with".
....So, where there is doubt (on your part), there is doubt that it may ever come together or even work out. I think you may really like the "shy" guy, because he's "unavailable" and presents a bit of a challenge. However, we have omitted the word "clever" hot, shy, guy, he may just be holding back because he recognizes how much you may want to get with him and he's just lettin' out the leash little by little until he know's you're way too ready!, and That's when he'll Bark At 'Cha.!!
As for the other sorta cute, short, nice guy, maybe you should give him a chance, become friends see how it goes. Unfortunately, it sounds to me like you got a case of "bad-boy" "itis" going on for the hot & shy guy. If' he's so Hot why does he need to be Shy???- is he hiding something??...hummm.
You'll just have to make up your own damn mind which way you will go, and again unfortunately they say also "nice guys finish last".
I don't want to predict where this is going for you, I hope it all works out for the best for you and whomever you decide., but I'm afraid I will be hearing from you soon- the CyberDogPound I keep watch over is currently on watch for inevitable dog chases like the one you may be headed for, If you need me (lol) hit me up on y- 360*.
roof!
- The DogCatcher
2006-10-13 09:52:39 · answer #2 · answered by DogCatcher 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you totally continue to like this hot guy and do nothing about it you will grow to regret it and wish that you would've sad something. The worst that could happen is that he doesn't feel the sameway, but likes you as a friend. At lest this way you know where he stands and you wont be thinking about being with him everytime you're with someone else. Then you can move on and enjoy who you're with.
2006-10-13 09:34:35 · answer #3 · answered by kitty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the one you really like, but take it slow. Try talking to him first, and see how it turns out. Then gradually get on his good side. Find out if he as a girlfriend and all that other good stuff. Then ask him out.
2006-10-13 09:35:36 · answer #4 · answered by Heaven 2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Evaluate the new guy. If you think, he is worth going for then go for it!! Maybe when you go for it, the hot guy will notice, and if it is meant to be it could be down the road. Then again, why wait on love if it is on your doorstep! hehe
2006-10-13 09:31:30 · answer #5 · answered by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hit up the guy thats shy... less of a chance 1000000000 other girls arnt tring to get with him also :)
2006-10-13 09:29:33 · answer #6 · answered by chrystal_lynn2002 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should still go out with the nice guy,but make sure ur crush knos that u still like him.this is sticky but do what is best for u.good luck!
2006-10-13 09:29:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take grammar 101 or whatever the equivalent is in grade school and impress him!!!
2006-10-13 09:31:55 · answer #8 · answered by RivatricHistrionic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt matter who you hang out with, it matters if they are your friend or not. ask the shy guy out, and if he says no, go out with the other guy, there is plenty of men or boys in the world..
2006-10-13 09:42:26 · answer #9 · answered by pinkredtank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love will fly if held too lightly.
Love will die if held too tightly.
How should I hold you .
How do I know.
I’m still keeping u
Or
I’m letting u go………
............go for the other 1 ...who likes you .....don't go for that shy guy ..because you don't knw he likes or not.........in search of love don lose wat you can have rite now ....
think about it
2006-10-13 09:32:18 · answer #10 · answered by self_stimulation 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋