How can you keep a conversation with quiet people.?

Question

i like this guy, but hes super shy. how do i keep a conversation going w/ him?

Answer 1

there is a guy i know that is totally like that. itz hard making conversation but instead of asking yes and no questions make sure that he can answer them in his own words . thats what i did and now i'm realy getting to know him. they may be quite shy but who's 2 say there not gr8 plpz XxX try talking about his interests n music. but clothes r kinda a no no *lol*

Answer 2

As a sometimes shy, definitely introverted, reserved, quiet person myself, let me take a stab at this. I'm female and a teacher, so I'm not totally an introvert. When I'm teaching, I'm "on" but once work is over, I'm definitely "off stage".

With some people you click, and with others it takes more time. There are people I will never click with, because of personality differences. It's said among the Chinese, "The fifth cup of tea among friends is best." This is a reserved, private culture. I like this quote because it says that it takes time to get to know people. Sharing a cup of tea just once is only good for casual acquaintanceship to happen.

Don't be afraid of silences. Often introverts are both processing what you say and thinking of what to say next. We don't ever want what we say to come out sounding facile or superficial or supercilious, so we take a while and craft the right thing to say. This doesn't always last. We just want to make a good first, second, and possibly third impression. :)

But there are times when, no matter how much you may like someone, things just don't click. Don't give up. Just give the person space, say hello, engage in meaningful conversation when you can, and otherwise just give them room to go their own way. If the attraction is mutual, it might take a while, but they will start talking more.

Good luck. Cheers, K

Answer 3

Even shy guys have things they like to talk about. If you are really interested then find out what he is really interested in. Also try starting a conversation with him he needs to feel comfortable and safe with you. Most shy people need to get to know you first before they warm up to you.

Answer 4

People that are super shy usually have some underlying issues, that's why they are shy.

That being said, we men have this need to be experts in everything. Ask him his advice about some things on your mind besides his shyness. It doesn't have to be big things. He may not shut up so be careful.

Answer 5

i genuinely am style of quiet, and that i detect it challenge-free to talk to a individual in the event that they shop the verbal substitute going and convey up issues to talk approximately. you additionally can ask the quiet individual questions, no longer various that is like an interview, yet so as that they might talk greater. reliable success!

Answer 6

the easiest way is to find out what he likes..you dont even need him to tell you.. just watch him sometimes and find something to say about it later. shy guys are good...sometimes tehy dont really know how hot they are...and they have so much to say thats far from vain. get to know him by finding something in common with him....you can start with what hes doing this weekend

Answer 7

It will not be easy unless you give him a reason to continue the conversation.

Shy people often would like to talk given the right stimulus.

Answer 8

Everybody has a passion. Find out his and ask him questions about it. I bet he wont shut up. After that, he may began to feel comfortable talking and open up about other things.

Answer 9

Find out what interests him...for instoance if it cars, family etc...talk about that then see if he joins in on the convo...if he likes you,trust me, he'll come around

Answer 10

Direct your questions to questions about him. People generally like talking about themselves. Try it !