2006-10-13 09:15:27 · 36 answers · asked by lilmama 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are a great girl...and I'm sure you are...but does he share that opinion..are you giving him enough sex..in HIS opinion not yours...he knows how much he wants. You only know how much your willing to give. If you are giving him plenty to satisfy him, he won't want to go anywhere else for it..and if you do it enough, you'll have him too TIRED to go anywhere else. I'm not condoning cheating at all, but it's instinctive to men to want sex more often then most women. That's just a nature...need to reproduce...... thing going on. Yes we are human and supposed to be able to deal with these things, but those who can't deal with them are rapists. How many women rapists are there? we'll never know that one because no guy in his right mind would say anything. lol sorry...anyway, it's easy for someone that doesn't have to deal with the urge that strongly and can get any body they want...guys don't have that option.....or rarely if so, that men are pigs for giving in to their instincts. Again I'm not condoning cheating in any way shape or form, but you need to look at the whole picture before you judge someone you can't even begin to feel for or deal with the things they have to. You won't hear me saying how women are...because I'll never know what it's like to be a woman, just like you won't know what it's like to be a man. I guess I'm just saying don't jump to judgements unless you've stood in their shoes.
2006-10-13 09:28:13 · answer #1 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on what you mean by boys. The first reason is and age issue. For a younger man, he does not even know himself yet. How could he possibly know what he wants in a relationship. Also for some guys it is just their way. How ever there is also a very unpopular but true opinion that some women just push the guys away. We as a rule are cowards when it comes to breaking up with a woman. So a woman may drive us insane and we don't know how to break it off. So we just move on and don't tell the woman. So to answer your question it depends on the guy.
2006-10-13 09:24:21 · answer #2 · answered by NIKK F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys cheat because they want to make sure they didn't miss something that was "better" than what they have.
Men look for quality before they choose. When they make their decision, they stick with it.
Girls do the same as boys... They'll run out on a good man, too. Don't act like you're all innocent and never do.
IT takes TWO to tango...
2006-10-13 09:22:40 · answer #3 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not about how great you are...its just about them. There are definetely men out there that don't cheat....but the ones that do, do it because well....they want to. They are willing to risk that you wont ever find out so they can get their immediate gratification. Thats all its about...they want it now and they don't think about the consequences. Men are able to separate sex and love...they dont feel guilty because they still love you, but that was "just sex". Just find a good man with some morals and you won't have to worry about it.
2006-10-13 09:21:28 · answer #4 · answered by EllisFan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause you girls are so hot in the beginning and then you get so boring. You need to keep things interesting in the bedroom. Don't get into a rut. Give it up like twice a day and he won't ever cheat.
2006-10-13 09:19:40 · answer #5 · answered by neptune032701 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To a lot of guys, it's the thrill of the chase. Even though they have a great girl, they want to know that they are still capable of getting someone else. It's an ego thing.
2006-10-13 09:18:45 · answer #6 · answered by KitKat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although the girl may think she is great, often times the boy does not.
Hope this helps.
2006-10-13 09:18:01 · answer #7 · answered by An Unhappy Yahoo User 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i ask that question too sometimes but i come to realize that many guys never get satisfied no matter how great their girls are. it is just the same as eating one type pf food every single day. you can try as hard as you can but you will absolutely get tired of it. that is one of the reasons why people cheat on their partners.
2006-10-13 09:20:59 · answer #8 · answered by lizie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because people are never happy with what they have til they lose it. say you have this really great juicy cheesburger with all the trimmings but then you see a spicy burrito that just tempts you so you eat it. but then when your eating the burrito you see mandarin chicken and your like, "dude, i totally want that chicken" so you go for it. well then you want ravioli, and then you want beans and rice, and then you want baklava, and the next thing you know your back with the cheeseburger. people like variety and you never know when the grass may actually be greener than where your at, so you gotta give it a try because if you don't you'll regret it.
2006-10-13 09:18:35 · answer #9 · answered by Justina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont! But some guys just cant be tied down to one girl, no matter how great she is, i know some like that...
2006-10-13 09:17:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋