okay so i want to ask this kid to sadie hawkins but i dont know how or what to say.. any advice?
2006-10-13 08:56:41 · 8 answers · asked by claire_volk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi would you like to go to the sadie hawkins dance with me? If the answer is no, please don't let it bother you. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
2006-10-13 09:00:43 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heres some history from a website:
Sadie Hawkins Day, an American folk event, made its debut in Al Capp's Li'l Abner strip November 15, 1937. Sadie Hawkins was "the homeliest gal in the hills" who grew tired of waiting for the fellows to come a courtin'. Her father, Hekzebiah Hawkins, a prominent resident of Dogpatch, was even more worried about Sadie living at home for the rest of his life, so he decreed the first annual Sadie Hawkins Day, a foot race in which the unmarried gals pursued the town's bachelors, with matrimony the consequence. By the late 1930's the event had swept the nation and had a life of its own. Life magazine reported over 200 colleges holding Sadie Hawkins Day events in 1939, only two years after its inception. It became a woman empowering rite at high schools and college campuses, long before the modern feminist movement gained prominence. The basis of Sadie Hawkins Day is that women and girls take the initiative in inviting the man or boy of their choice out on a date, typically to a dance attended by other bachelors and their aggressive dates. When Al Capp created the event, it was not his intention to have the event occur annually on a specific date because it inhibited his freewheeling plotting. However, due to its enormous popularity and the numerous fan letters Capp received, the event became an annual event in the strip during the month of November, lasting four decades.
So depending on your school all it is , is a dance where girls ask guys. When I was in highschool it was called the Twerp dance. If they asked you they usually will pay for you as well. See if you can talk her into taking you to an expensive restaruant and picking you up in a limo
2006-10-13 16:03:06 · answer #2 · answered by skip s 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just casually walk over to the kid and say "will you go to the sadie hawkins dance with me?" pretty easy huh?
2006-10-13 16:00:45 · answer #3 · answered by puppypal710 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The whole concept with a Sadie Hawkins dance is that your suppose to ask him (he knows a girls gonna ask him) so that should make it a little easier on you......Just come out and ask, it will be fine, trust me!
2006-10-13 16:01:02 · answer #4 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask I did when I was younger and now I am engaged to the guy. I know that sounds to perfect to be true and it is. we wen tto the dance together then that was it. We were friends and he started dating someone else about 2 months later. I hoped that by dating a guy that it would make him Jealous it did but strained our friendship. So we parted ways. We started hanging out again when he was dating my older sister. And when they broke up I didn't know what to do. I forgot all about him again until my junior year in High school and he asked me to be his GF and i reluctlatly agreed but on many conditions. After 2 years of Dating he asked me to marry him and I said yes.
2006-10-13 16:02:10 · answer #5 · answered by rhianon_elizabeth 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
say "will you go to the sadie hawkins dance w. me" ........easy huh?
2006-10-13 15:58:26 · answer #6 · answered by ndn_202 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're really nervous about asking him in person (I would be!) then you could write him a note. I think it woud be best to do it in person, though. Also, you could IM him...but thats kind of shallow. Go for it though, or you'll regret it.
2006-10-13 16:05:10 · answer #7 · answered by .:Blair:. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what it's all about in case he doesn't know and just ask !
2006-10-13 16:01:38 · answer #8 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋