Ok i like a boy but this other boy asked me out and i dont want to hurt his fealings what should i do?
2006-10-13 08:48:41 · 22 answers · asked by abbi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
think about his intenstion and use your own judgement...
2006-10-13 08:50:26 · answer #1 · answered by HUNK 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even though it may be awkward I think you should be honest with the guy who asked you out. Let him know upfront that you would love to go out as friends but that you are interested in someone else romantically. Honesty is always the best policy and it saves you from hurting people in the future. If you don't want to go out at all make sure that you tell him in a polite but straight forward manner. If the guy isn't a total jerk then there is no need to hurt his feelings or wound his ego too badly. Remember if you injure his confidence now another girl will have to deal with his wounds later on so be as gentle as you can be while making your point clear. In the end the only thing that matters are your feelings. Life is too short for you to waste your time on pity dates. Just be honest about what you are feeling and whether you decide to take him or leave him make sure you are comfortable with the decision that is made. Good Luck!!!!
2006-10-13 09:00:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm kinda against giving others advice with their love lives, but I will tell you this....
When I was in eighth grade (MANY years ago) a boy asked me out. He called me on the phone and asked me to go to the movies. I said no because he was a "geek." I have not seen him or any of his friends since that (he asked me the night we graduated). I am now happily engaged and quite in love, but to this day I still feel bad about saying no. Do I think my life would have been different? NO. Do I think it would have been a relationship? No. But I do think this guy took all the courage to ask me out, and I said no because I had no courage about what others MIGHT think if they saw me. It takes a lot for a guy to ask a girl out, cut him a break. You will never regret one little date, but you may regret NOT doing it. You never know
2006-10-13 08:58:27 · answer #3 · answered by Just tryin' to help 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did he ask u on a date or did he ask u 2 b him gf? if it was only a date go 4 it 1 night wont hurt if its gf and bf kinda thing wel think do u have a chance w/ the boy ur likein now if so just say no! but if u dont then go 4 it, its not goin 2 hurt anything!
2006-10-13 08:53:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your options open. Way back in the "olden days" we used date, not go steady as it used to be called. When you date you aren't committed to sticking with just one bf and you learn a lot about what you are looking for in a life partner. When you go steady you may find the guy's personality and yours clash but you don't want to go through the process of breaking up because someone gets hurt emotionally.
2006-10-13 08:55:40 · answer #5 · answered by knittinmama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like him romantically, you need to tell him so. Guys don't get subtle hints. You have to be blunt. And don't do it on a date. You need to tell him no thank you on the date invitation. If you go ahead and go on the date with him, you'll send him major mixed signals, and will just look like a gold digger. He'll think you just wanted a free meal out of him.
2006-10-13 08:56:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it must be a threat that they do exactly not opt for you with the guy you're with. It additionally may be a threat that your boyfriend has stated some issues approximately you to make you look as though "stable game." additionally, the guy you used to love won't have seen you as a capacity female chum till he observed the type you taken care of your boyfriend you're at the instant with. the two way, if it become me, i would not worry with regard to the guy I used to love. in case you have something super going with the guy you're with now and you quite have emotions for him, stick by utilising his ingredient no count what. interior the tip, if it would not artwork out, you are able to consistently confer with the guy you used to love and see in case you need to start up a relationship with him.
2016-11-28 04:01:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him straight up. just say, look i'm into someone else right now and it wouldn't be right for me to go out with you.
because if you tell him, i don't want a relationship RIGHT NOW he is gonna think that maybe in the future you will. no sense in dragging him along, ya know?
plus he will appreciate your honestly way more up front than 6 months later when you finally do tell him and his heart is broken.
GOOD LUCK, GIRL :)
2006-10-13 08:51:03 · answer #8 · answered by Mimi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's like car you see one model and you like it. Then there is another, that is ok you should test drive them both because the ok car might have better options. Have fun and be safe.
2006-10-13 08:54:07 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice, but say that you're already seeing somebody.
Also, stop asking total strangers what you should do about your own private romantic entanglements.
2006-10-13 08:51:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....you are entitled to have friends too. I can't see anything wrong to go out with a friend, but all depends on his , or your intentions.
2006-10-13 13:16:42 · answer #11 · answered by commerfin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋