i am a freshman at a college and have never dated anyone in high school...seriously i have never dated anyone and now i have a hot date for this weekend.....im not sure if i shud tell her that she is my first date....if i do tell her what wud she think......girls plz plz plz help
2006-10-13 08:36:57 · 25 answers · asked by J D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with the other ladies. Don't ask, don't tell. Just have fun.
2006-10-13 08:39:21 · answer #1 · answered by wrtrchk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your cool - just relax.
Take a jog or work out seriously - Today!! Right now if you can. Get away from the computer and go get your heart rate up for at least a half hour or more. Then go home get cleaned up - Shave- Dress nicely and go some where- Just be comfortable in your own skin. Youll do just fine. No need to tell her this is your first date. Wait til you have a couple more with her first and find out if yall are compatable - then if you find that you really like her- you can tell her later (if she likes you?) So go on now- get your anxiety worked out and look and feel good!! youll be just fine!!!
2006-10-13 08:43:40 · answer #2 · answered by tbaby 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't tell her that she is your first date. That would put pressure on both of you. And you don't want her to wonder the whole night "why am I the first one he has dated?" The key to it is to act like this is no big deal and that you are just enjoying her company. Don't act like this may be your first and last chance! lol. Just be yourself and know that this is probably the start of many more dates to come, whether with her or someone else. Just treat her with respect and don't be clingy and you will be great!
2006-10-13 08:51:03 · answer #3 · answered by cinarella 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is no reason to tell her she is your first date, and if she asks you about your dating history just tell her you have never been in a serious relationship which is no big deal. I'm a 19 year old female in college and I have been on dates, but never been in a serious relationship, it's no biggie!! :) Have fun & good luck!! :)
2006-10-13 08:41:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would not tell her. That won't help either one of you. Just relax and be yourself. Don't try too hard. Just b/c it's a date doesn't mean you should act different than yourself. I mean, don't belch at the table or anything, but just be cool. Good Luck. Let her kiss you if it is to happen tonight. Don't kiss her, if she likes you, you'll get a 2nd date.
2006-10-13 08:39:55 · answer #5 · answered by sasrun 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't tell her it's your first date. She might see you as an untrained puppy and get scared. Wait until you've gotten to know each other before you share that stuff. Exude confidence. Get her to talk. Ask her about her family, job, etc. Girls love it when a guy asks questions and really LISTENS to the answers.
2006-10-13 08:42:02 · answer #6 · answered by Dasher 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im a guy and i think you shouldnt tell her that she's your first date. Especially if the girl is hot....DON'T TELL HER. Act with confidence covering up any details of any bad things that happened in the past.
2006-10-13 08:39:20 · answer #7 · answered by JO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and have fun. If it comes up in conversation tell her. She obviously likes you enough to go out on a date with you so it may not even be an issue.
2006-10-13 08:39:29 · answer #8 · answered by B U Tiful 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do not tell her. Act like you have been on thousands of dates and you probably have another one tomorrow night with a different chick.
Don't ask girls for advice with this stuff! They are going to tell you what they want you to do, so that it would be easier for them.
Trust me, you don't want that!
2006-10-13 08:39:48 · answer #9 · answered by tightlies 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't ask girls how to talk to girls. Don't "be yourself". And, most of all do not tell her you are inexperienced. The guys that are successful are just good at pretending like they are confident and experienced. All the guys in college are inexperienced and clueless. So you have to learn how to "act" like you are confident. Believe me, it works, and ignore the advice of girls, they are clueless!
2006-10-13 08:41:40 · answer #10 · answered by martin h 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋