our wedding night is set for january 12th.we were together sexually for the first time last night.he wanted to wait for our wedding night but i couldn't wait, i wanted to be with him atleast once.i am in love with him but when i saw his penis erections size i went into shock because his erect was the same size as my thumb. its the same length and shamfully the same width. WOW was i turned me off,,, so i blew him instead. now im having second thoughts.do you think im sexually spoiled because of all of the other men i have experianced ?
2006-10-13 08:33:27 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You dirty little girl! Its not all about sex. Why judge a man by the size of his weener! You are the kind of girls that make me sick.
2006-10-13 08:37:39 · answer #1 · answered by joshooog 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Oh Honey you poor thing, that's really horrible and i totally sympathise. LEAVE, i mean even that 5 thrust thang is totally uncool. O.k if leavings not an option and you do love him then he should respect that you need "more" to keep you satisfied, its a whole life together and stitches heal...maybe you could suggest an enlargement as a wedding gift, and get him frozen down to make sure you have back up. I don't know the risks involved but just talk about how "Happy, huge, masculine and empowering him having a big one is for you both. How you cant wait to make passionate love every day when your married, But the last effort was a little "Uninspiring" Be honest, but extra careful and ultra diplomatic about how you approach it, this is a most upsetting topic of manhood. Remember u have a right to be happy, and if he really wants to be with u, he should do anything to keep you.
2016-03-18 08:53:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've experienced that many men and judge a guy on his penis size, I wonder why he is marrying you. After all, I've known some guys with pretty small ones who are way better at sex than anyone with a normal or larger size. But since it turns you off so much maybe you better go back to all those other men and select your next partner by checking his dick before you say I do.
2006-10-16 14:41:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
So sorry to hear you are with a "short, short" man. But you are justified in being concerned about "equipment". Why get married if that is going to be in the back of your mind, you're never going to be satisfied. And for all those guys who say "size don't matter", they must have the same issue as your man. Go out and find someone more compatible with your mental and physical needs!
2006-10-13 08:45:36 · answer #4 · answered by DENVER_27 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!!! that's why I believe in testing the goods before buying it.....because you love him you should accept him for his flaws and all...you're not sexually spoiled, you are sexually conscious! But here's a solution that makes everyone happy......you can get him fire man's pump (that usually enlarges the penis temporary)....OK as a female, we have our g-spot in the front of our vagina...now because of the penis size it will be just right to touch your g-spot and simulating you. He would just have to maneuver and "work it" so that you forget the size. Because he was not blessed like normals guys, you would have to do alot of kegal exercise so you tighten the muscles in your vagina...thus making intercourse both enjoyable for both. There is always ways to go around a handicap....bring toys in the bedroom.....more clitoral simulators than dildos so that you can keep your insides intact (for your future husband). I'm a professional adult novelty counselor and work with these kinds of issues all the time. My company offers all kind of wonderful product to enlarge him and tighten you.(www.tantalizingproductions.com) You are more than welcome to check it out....who knows you probably set up a honeymoon basket that will pleasurable for both of you.....not just for the honeymoon but the duration of your marriage.
2006-10-13 08:54:09 · answer #5 · answered by teaspoon520 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Damn, now I know why he wanted to wait until the wedding night.
Even though he may have a sport car sized penis, he may know how to drive it well. This is your call, marriage is a lifetime commitment.
2006-10-13 08:41:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
part of being happy in a relationship is sexual compatibility and sexual satisfaction.. if you arent married, and dont want to sleep with him, will you sleep with him when you are?? You may end up looking for other people to satisfy you, and that would end up bad. is it as small as you say, or just smaller than you're used to? He may be willing to satisfy you other ways.. orally, for instance. if it bothers you alot, I would def. sit down and think about it.. if it bothers you alot, you will probably fall out of love with him eventually, and it would be a waste to get married. just decide what is important to you.. its OK to be selfish and care about yourself and your needs.honestly, how many men would stay with a girl that felt like throwing a hotdog down a hallway?? you have the right to be happy. and a life time of displeasure isnt going to make you happy.
2006-10-13 08:43:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh man, that's gotta suck. Marriage isn't just about the size of a man's weapon. There is more to that, ok?? Give it a shot.
2006-10-13 08:37:06 · answer #8 · answered by Webballs 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hahahahaha,I'm sorry but that is quite funny.Relationships should not be about sex,that is just something extra,work with what he has,is all I've got to say.
2006-10-13 08:37:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if he wont make you happy no you shoulnt go thru with the marriage because it wont last. his penis size wont grow 7 inches before the wedding. so go ahead and save yourself some pain
2006-10-13 08:38:27 · answer #10 · answered by Hope 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are spoiled period!! If you are even thinking about dumping him over this then you don't deserve him! Remember its not the size of a man's unit but how he uses it!
2006-10-13 08:37:47 · answer #11 · answered by toyman 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋