Hi my name is Jen and iam 15 years old , my crush's name is Nick and he plays varsity football.... He was new to my school and he was only in my morning metting room.. So on his first day i said hi and asked him where he was from.. Then he told me if I could show him around school.. so ofcourse .. i did..... Then 2 weeks passed and he saw me cleaning the teachers desk and since then he teases me and calls me Janitor... we usually flirt around by dissing each other but we laugh and we always keep eye contact.. One day we were playing around and he came over to me and said iam going to beat u up and choke u.. but he was just playing... he went over to my desk and put his arms around my neck but it was more like a hug...Then that same day he arrives at my locker in the afternoon and i turned around and i said u freaking scared me so he said oh so u dont want me to be here and i said no i didnt say that.. Then he said see ya around... b/c he knows we live one street away... He asked me if i was going to the football game and i said maybe.. i just dont have no one to go with.. so he said if i wasnt playing in the game i wouldve gone with u to spend time... so then today night was the game and i saw his couch screaming at him but i realized he was looking at me instead of the coach.. so he was staring at me and i stared back......next week.. i was trying to talk to his friend and he kept interrupting me... and i told him your so mean and he said .... Iam sorry.... The he told his friend that i wanted to ask him out.... then his friend said i know who u wanna ask out and he turned red..
Do u think iam the person he likes? but therefore iam not sure if he does b/c he gives me mixed signals.. like today he said ... oh u say hi to my friend but u dont say hi to me.... but then he calls me a tellytubby.. in other ways isnt he calling me fat? iam confused.... well today... i wrote him a note saying if he could encourage me to run. and he said well i have football everyday but ill try. Then he asked his friend and said should I or should i not? and his friend said idk. so then he said maybe on sunday. so i said how will i know? and he said why do u want my number ..... and i said no.... Then i saw him in the hall way and i gave him a note with my #... So what do u think?? he's gonna call or not?
2006-10-13 08:12:02 · 14 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop!!!! Just ask the boy out! GEt on with it!
2006-10-13 08:14:36 · answer #1 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In short, you are both kids, flirting around and trying to get the another person's attention. Just like in kindergarten when one hit the other or took the other's marker. One of you needs to make the move and ask the other one out to a movie or for pizza. It's that simple. You can ask him, now a days the girl has just as much right to ask the boy out, simple as that. Ahhh, high school years, it life was still that simple.
2006-10-13 08:16:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.....what a story. I remember teen love- IT SUCKED! This guy is obviously very focused on football. Either that or he is hepped up on roids. He obviously doesnt know yet how to talk to a woman romantically. He has several odd defense mechanisms- methods to shield his feelings. He calls you names, and the playfully threatens to choke you??? Very Odd, but I think everything will be ok. Once the roids wear off, he might be close to a human being. How old is this guy? 15,16,17? Believe me, he is just a kid, and you are too. Dont waste your time with this douchebag. Get good grades, go to college, and find a decent husband there, like most girls do.
2006-10-13 08:19:47 · answer #3 · answered by Brad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long words, but here is the answer, your guy came from somewhere else and he isn't really in any group yet. Even if he is, his friend is making fun of him. So you need to know why he is giving mix message, is because he is an outsider. he don't know who to trust and not to trust.
now, he will call, but you just have to wait a little.
2006-10-13 08:17:37 · answer #4 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I skimmed through and it sounds like you need to try and be his friend first and then when you really know him see if he still flirts and then ask him out. The point is to find out if he wants more than friendship or not
2006-10-13 08:14:41 · answer #5 · answered by stormbubble05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT was tough keeping up with your story, but it sounds like he is interested in you. The tellytubby joke was just a playful one, i'm sure he will call you, if he doesnt , he probably isnt sure that you like him too
2006-10-13 09:18:07 · answer #6 · answered by ernie_casarez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait for his call. I told you to ask him to hang out at your house..see if he goes
2006-10-13 08:15:00 · answer #7 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easily, women that have not got sufficient adventure with existence and are uncertain and shelter approximately themself and what they like from their existence, chosen the adult males who're like your human beings. i became an identical.. adult males who have been intense high quality to me and well mannered could by no ability interest me.. however the boy who became the participant and purely like your pal could constantly make me prefer him.. its like a pastime.. like a tricky pastime that each and every woman needs to win.. yet u comprehend it took me purely 6 months to attain that I could admire myself and detect a guy who will cope with me like a woman that he needs and desires constantly.. no longer purely whilst hes bored.. i do no longer occasion or drink or etc and the guy im with appropriate now could be same as me.. it took time for us to discover one yet another.. and im ultimately happy and happy.. i dont think of you are able to ever exchange your self.. the only undertaking you acquire to artwork on is to leard what varieties of girls there are available.. they could be very intense high quality yet whilst they blow you off as quickly as.. no rely their reason.. you are able to understand them and not enable it take place back.. and its rather consumer-friendly to work out the version between those style of girls and the girls that are respectful and intense approximately any style of courting they get into.. you are able to each and every now and then even tell by ability of how they communicate approximately their friends and family contributors.. i dont think of you are able to desire to do something approximately those women.. leaving it on my own and studying from it may be the terrific determination.. yet be advantageous you no longer lose desire find your soulmate.. its significant to have self belief and desire.. and ofcourse ull meet her at some point.. goodluck even with the incontrovertible fact that pal, its very intense high quality to appreciate theres a guy such as you. superb.. yet very intense high quality.. :)
2016-10-02 06:38:25 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant believe i read that whole thing. good christ just go plant a big one on him if for no other reason you'll never come on here with **** like that ever again.
2006-10-13 08:16:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow sweetheart.....to much drama for such a little girl. i think you need to take a step back a breathe for a minute. whats meant to be is meant to be.
2006-10-13 08:17:12 · answer #10 · answered by It's a secret 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋