so getting ready for first time.... no, not too young... but a little nervous- how much does it hurt?
2006-10-13 08:10:04 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, in all honesty, it's painful. But nothing you can't handle, promise. I was nervous to...but its not as bad as you think it is. I teared up a little, just be sure to take it slow. Dont wam-bam the first time. LOL Make sure you are comfortable. Try not to get all tense... most of all. Make sure you both are comfortable. I mean like where you do it at. Don't do it on the ground your first time...LOL. Obviuosly you are ready, just be sure its what you both want. Good luck.
2006-10-13 08:14:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first time didn't hurt but i want you to know that it was NOT what i expected. You are going to be nervous and shy, and you will probably feel a little ackward. Make sure you are doing it because you are ready. don't do it just because you are feeling pressure. The second time will probalby be much better. The third time will be GREAT. But don't have too high expectations this first time around. Dont get me wrong though, you will enjoy it, just take it in stride.
2006-10-13 15:27:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It never really hurt my first time. I was kind of young but was really horny at the time and my body was ready. Make sure you have lots of good foreplay and use some lubricant if you are nervous. And, it depends on the size. If its a big 'un, you might just have to suffer a little, but personally, I think it hurts so good.
Good luck and make sure you use birth control!!
2006-10-13 15:13:27 · answer #3 · answered by cici 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have a good partner that does plenty of 4play and you are mentaly ready, then it won't hurt a bit. But if you are just doing it cuz you are being pressured and it is a wam bam thank you mama then yes it will hurt.
don't rush into anything, and only take something to that level if you 2 are truley commited and can handle any posible consiquences that may result form having sex.
2006-10-13 15:14:22 · answer #4 · answered by Icara4ewu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 22 and It still hurt, Its the most wonderful experience of your life if shared with the right person! The only one thing I can tell you is relax if you are nervous your muscles will tighten making the pressure worse. Lay back and just let him do his thing, hopfully he knows its your first so he doesn't get to rough with you.! GOOD LUCK.and enjoy!
2006-10-13 15:12:42 · answer #5 · answered by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what loosing your virginity? well if I'm right? well ma just make sure you are ready and your not doing it just for your boyfriend or whatever? and make sure its the right guy? and it hurts a Lil bit and you'll bleed a little bit but that's normal? but when you do it the 2ND or 3 rd time it wont hurt as much? but good luck and hope you making the right choice?
2006-10-13 15:13:27 · answer #6 · answered by i luv ariana alize! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I still remember my first time...some time ago...and it freakin hurt. I still remember :) that i asked him to stop and he said "I only have the tip in" and I called it quits. Tried again another time and same thing but went through with it.
First times are not as nice as they seem. Hope you really really like this guy, and he likes you
2006-10-13 15:15:48 · answer #7 · answered by Diana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the women, not real bad as long as he is gentle. Just relax and try to enjoy. Lots of foreplay. Also giving birth is WAYYYY more painful
2006-10-13 15:11:52 · answer #8 · answered by Johnna B 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I was pretty young like14 or 15 I cant remember when i gave it up. Ohh and the guy was one year younger than me so To me it didn't hurt.
2006-10-13 15:13:12 · answer #9 · answered by Twilight 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on the person (you) and who you are with. Take it slow and make sure you are very ready for it.
2006-10-13 15:21:58 · answer #10 · answered by Kitty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋