2006-10-13 08:09:54 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, she's your wife.
2006-10-13 08:12:07 · answer #1 · answered by teddy shae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever we try to find out the relationship between love and marriage both seems to be synonymous. Love is a dream and marriage is a reality. And when both dream and reality comes together it is the best thing that can happen to a person. Any long-term successful relationship calls for effort and hard work. So when we decide to spend the rest of our life together by getting married than only the actual love starts. Love is more like a wonderful feeling, which we all like to experience on the other hand marriage calls for understanding and daily effort. We constantly need to nurture our feelings. It requires mutual respect for each other and time and attention as any other aspect of life. Love marriage can be the best thing if there is effort and commitment from both the side.
Infidelity in marriage - people who are willing to have an affair rather than divorce, the chances of divorce are already 50-50.
An affair is devastating to almost everyone involved, even if it is by consent. It's one of the most painful experiences that you will ever be forced to endure, and it is also very painful for the children. Friends and members of the extended family are usually hurt as well when they come to know about it. But what most people don't realize is that the spouse and the lover are also hurt by the experience. It almost always causes them to suffer acute depression, often with thoughts of suicide. With all this sadness, why do so many people do it?
It's true that in some marriages a spouse will complain about an unmet need, and find their complaint met with anger and recriminations. When there seems to be no hope for satisfaction, these people find themselves particularly vulnerable to an affair. After all, the spouse had a chance to meet the need, but refused.
We are all wired for affairs. The only people who are exempt are those who are utterly incapable of meeting someone else's emotional needs. If you can't meet anyone's needs, no one will ever fall in love with you. But if your spouse has anything to offer others, and you are not meeting an important emotional need, commitment to "forsake all others" can become words without meaning.
My Advice: Please sit across the table and thrash this issue out and if the problem remains inresolved it would be better to part rather than be a part of such an arrangement.
Good Luck>
2006-10-14 01:26:31 · answer #2 · answered by Rahul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u want she to sleep with a person,well i think u have a problem if she sleep out with somone that u dont know any thing can happen. Remember HIV/ is the order of today's world. and if u do let her sleep with any person and a whole "woman r man" any thing can take place, but am nat saying that u should stap her but ham give u some basic advised.
2006-10-13 15:17:10 · answer #3 · answered by 0012 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know how you guys work your relationships there but if i were you I would leave her. Are you mad she wants to sleep with some else and your okay with that?!, are you MAD. I am that is WRONG. I am so sorry for darlin. I don't know what to tell you other than that it's not right.
P.S. Don't you dare accept it unless you sleep with someone else. Even then that I think is just wrong. You two do not want to sleep togther then why did you get married?????????
cheers
2006-10-13 15:15:50 · answer #4 · answered by scully_22ps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen.. Do u want to b left alone? If i was a guy i would never let my s[pouse sleep with someone else. That just defeats the purpose ofmarrige. U r supposed to stay faithful with ur spouse. No matter what. so i would not let her. and if she dissagrees. i think u need a diforce
2006-10-13 15:13:44 · answer #5 · answered by | 爱 ) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not make a difference that where you are from. What really matters is how your realtionship will proceed after this. Would you respect her & lover as much as now? If not would she be fine with that? consider all consequences like a pregnancy, STDs including AIDS & then decide.
All the best
2006-10-14 03:40:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats wrong with you ?? India or Australia marriage means something. it needs commitment and compassion, be a stranger for her.
2006-10-13 15:13:51 · answer #7 · answered by raunak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man u say your an Indian am an Indian too.. dont you know the morals we are taught by our paresnts??
no sex until marraige
be faitfull to your spouse
try & be the best example to society.. etc
so what the HelL is you wife wanting to sleep with another man/women (wat ever it may be)
talk some sense into her .. if nothings a cure
Divorce is the way man.. !!
2006-10-13 18:45:46 · answer #8 · answered by chirayu1990 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bull ****, are u a indian, i am ashamed to hear this from a indian, coz i am a indian, you better kill your wife or you die, that would be fine.... you wife is a useless creature and you are indeed a very very useless creature, better dont ask any questions in this group, if i find you again, just kill you by using bad words... mind it
2006-10-13 17:23:42 · answer #9 · answered by raj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear if u sleep any stranger before then its alright, but not then u should use ur mind, if ur in india then its a society issue if ur in foriegn country then its ok, it happend all the time.
2006-10-13 16:16:03 · answer #10 · answered by STUDENT OF USA 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only if she'll enjoy you doing the same thing. If not ask her if you and the stranger can do a train on her.
2006-10-13 15:15:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋