Sometimes, when I was younger I used to be nervous sometimes when it came to talking to females. However, I said all they can do is say no. So I grabbed my you know what, and started talking to a lot of females and asked them out. At times, I was still sometimes nervous. Sometimes I was calm about the whole ordeal. Guys a little advice a woman who senses fear will not give you a chance at a date. Spoken from experience. Don't be too cocky, but have confidence in yourself. Guys if you're trying to get with a female. You better heed what I'm saying. Guys, are you acting scared when you talk to a female? Also, Females, you don't go out with a guy who's like.."Err, I was wondering, if uh, maybe we could umm, go out or like...err something?" would you? Not showing eye contact and being too shy and scared would you? No, right?
2006-10-13 08:05:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes and men are like cats, they are made to climb trees
2006-10-13 08:07:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See here's the thing. Women can sense nervousness and fear in men and when a woman senses that she's either not interested in the first place because you come off as a wuss or she thinks something is wrong with you. Either way it's a lose-lose situation for a man who is shy or nervous.
But, on the other hand, when a guy is overly confident or cocky (thinking his spiel can win over any woman) some women can get scared of that because some will think "how many times has he said this to a woman?" and some women are not impressed with a "script." But some women may like that a man is hitting on her, making her laugh. It's all about the right combination, a little confidence, humbleness, and genuineness.
But with men, if a woman doesn't like you right away, you'll get the answer in the first minute you try to talk to her.
2006-10-13 08:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by Hazel Lorraine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, but it not only pertains to relationships. When a stranger on the street ask for directions or anything besides my number I can sense nervousness, shyness or even them being afraid to ask a question. Woman don't like men who are scared to step up, but we sense these things by looking into there eyes. Your eye expressions tell the whole story!
2006-10-13 08:12:40 · answer #3 · answered by Kawainani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is all made up. "Female intuition" is imaginary. Sometimes a woman feels closer to her child than other people but being able to "sense" things about men she has never met isn't real. The intuition a lot of women talk about are her own preconceived notions about men, most of the time they aren't true but the one time it is she chalks it up to her having some supernatural sense.
2006-10-13 08:09:08 · answer #4 · answered by GG Alan Alda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do like assertive men. However, that doesn't necessarily mean that he couldn't also be shy. In fact, the more shy he is, the more an assertive approach impresses me because I know it probably wasn't easy for him. Just make sure that it isn't so hesitant that she can't tell for sure whether she was being asked out.
2006-10-13 08:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by Nicegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a hard time taking relationship advice from a guy who says "women are like dogs". You might want to work on that.
2006-10-13 08:08:12 · answer #6 · answered by hutmikttmuk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is true that us women can sense fear but sometimes we dont always say no b-cuz the bf that i have now wouldnt even look at me when we would see each other but then he asked me out neways and i could tell that he was scared but i said yes ne ways. so sometimes we are mean about it and sometimes we are not.
2006-10-13 08:12:39 · answer #7 · answered by mariah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yes, if a guy is nervous it is a strong turn-off. and i honestly believe women have that intuition that senses the man is nervious. they notice small little signs. the man who holds his head high and pretends to not have a doubt in his mind (rather he does or not) is the man who often gets the girl!
2006-10-13 08:09:08 · answer #8 · answered by jess l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say most girls give guys a chance no matter how they act as long as the guy is attractive and doesn't keep acting embarrased when he's around the girl.
2006-10-13 08:08:58 · answer #9 · answered by Fun2010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think anything alive can sense fear when it's around.
2016-05-21 23:22:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom has always taght me men are nothing but dogs, hot dogs:-) i think its kinda cute when the guy is shy and just know she is probably shy too and if she is nice she won't just say ewww no!! she will let you down easy but you sound to nice to be turned down. never go up to her like yea i'm all that and i no you are going to say yes but don't hang your head either just be real with her
2006-10-13 08:11:35 · answer #11 · answered by britt-britt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋