I must admit i have rejected a guy before, and he was really cut up about it, i know rejection, is hard to accept in any event, the thing is he just wasen't my type of man...and i really felt bad for him, but is rejection worse when it comes from a beautiful woman, or easier to accept when it comes from a plain jane, and how do you guys deal with rejection?...
2006-10-13 08:03:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Beauty hurt me much more than plain.
2006-10-13 08:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Rejection is not a question of coming from a pretty or ugly girl, Every male has opinion of beauty and as they say beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. I honestly think no man who cares from his heart either an ugly or a pretty one -it is bad as the guy will tend to loose his self confidence and will be miserable all the time. If you as a woman do not want this to happen you must make your stand clear before setting out on any kind of relationship so when and if a split comes - both are prepared for the same.
2006-10-13 08:11:24 · answer #2 · answered by livingonthinice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both are bad and this sounds bad but if a hot girl dumps you your like man will i ever find a girl that beautiful again plain Jane your like man i cant even keep someone that has limited options jk but you know wot i mean. rejection sucks no matter wot you can be ready to dump them and they dump you your like Y! wots wrong w/ me how to get over it sleep w/ a new one till a guy finds a new girl he'll still always have some feelings for the old one just the way it is. reminds ne of a joke i herd if you marry marry an ugly chick because if u marry a beautiful chick she mite run off on u ,the other guy says yeah but cant an ugly chick run off u too 1st guy says yeah but if an ugly chick runs off on you who gives a sh#t!
2006-10-13 08:14:48 · answer #3 · answered by <B> 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone takes rejection different so some may take it pretty hard while others just move on. And beauty has nothing to do with rejection as far making it easier
2006-10-13 08:11:09 · answer #4 · answered by Tito G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know I have never been rejected. I don't put myself in the position to be rejected.
I would only ask a girl out I really liked and that doesn't happen very often.
My mate got knocked back of a Thai hooker in Bangkok. He is well good looking aswell. She said her husband owned the bar and she was not available for hire. I ripped him about for weeks but he didn't seem that bothered about it. She let him down gently or she was telling the truth.
I thought she was skinny and horrible no breasts. nipples like 2 inches long, repulsive. My mates sick that's it he is my ex mate.
2006-10-13 08:13:23 · answer #5 · answered by SunGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think looks should be everything in a relationship, it just depends on how much the other person liked the person who is breaking up with them. Now when it comes to cheating I would rather my man cheat with someone better looking than me than someone plain. Not that my man would cheat.:)
2006-10-13 08:07:50 · answer #6 · answered by I do what I want.. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all the same because we sit and think about what to say how to say it,repeat it in our heads a million times just to get it wright.then we have to build up the nerve to walk up to the girl and say it.than after all the stomach turning and roller coaster ride feelings. the girl rejects us now we have to walk away trying to look as if were o.k. but we are not it kills us inside.so if she is a penny,a nickel, or dime piece if we approached her that means that we wanted her so if she says no the pain is a killer to our heart. because we just got rejected by the one we seen as beautiful.
2006-10-13 08:27:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worse when it comes from plain.
2006-10-13 08:09:17 · answer #8 · answered by snatchel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
neither its whenn the ugly ones that think their beautiful reject you and you're just looking for a quick romp and don't even care that much
2006-10-13 08:09:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
worse when it comes from a beautiful woman...I don't really have too much experience in that though...
2006-10-13 08:06:14 · answer #10 · answered by sbubbles24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋