When is a good age to lose your virginity?

Question

I did when I was eleven. Is that too young?

Answer 1

What is your number, sweetie?

Answer 2

eleven is defenitly too young!! I would say before you are 18, is hard to be matured enough to take that kind of decision. At that young age, you tend to do things and then regreat. Having sex is a big step. when we are too young, we get confused easyly.we think we are inlove,we will marry that perosn etc. But in reality it rarely happens.but when u are too young is like u have ur eyes closed, and u arent able to see certain things.If you have sex at 12, 14, 15 or so.I dont think u are phisically and mentally prepared.As I said you might regreat. AFTER you are 18 there isnt really one perfect age. Is when u know u are matured enough and do it when u know exclty what u are doing and what do you want..in a responsible way.

Answer 3

There is no certain age, eleven is a little young. You should wait till your older and more mature. I didnt, and I regret that, I was 16 and im about to be 18 now and still dont think im really emotionally ready for it, even though I am s.active with my friend/boyfriend/thing. Its just one of those things ya know like everyone is different.

Answer 4

Wow, yeah that is really young. I think at that age, you are too young to know what it was all about. Someone had to have taken advantage of you....anyway, to answer the question, i think that really you need to be older like at least 17 or 18. I believe you shouldn't be a slut and sleep around with whoever. You should wait until your heart can register what true love is and then go from there if you are comfortable and ready.

Answer 5

ABSOLUTELY! Eleven is way too young. That's just a little girl. A child. Kids treat sex like a game or just something to do. It is an adult situation and should only be experienced by adults. Your childhood will disappear too quickly as it is. Stay a child as long as you can and leave adult things for later.

Answer 6

19, 11 is far too young. as by the time you are 20ish you could be into S & M and all sorts of sick stuff.

Pretty bad experience to have at such a young age. I just hope you were folling around with a boy of similar age and nothing oo disturbing.

I never got pubes till I was nearly 14. nedver mind the rest.

Answer 7

Were you married? If not, it is too young. Respect yourself. If you are planning on continuing this premarrital sex thing will you at least do the following: Repeat after me "NO LOVE WITHOUT A GLOVE" Seriously, at eleven you should be playing with barbies not playing birds and the bees.

Answer 8

Eleven is too young to lose your virginity. You should lose it when you get married because you don't want your children to end up w/ traits from other people you've had sex with.

Answer 9

Ok, that's unfortunate. I would say anytime after 21 is a pretty good age. Sadly, emotion receptors in the human brain trigger at puberty...yet the reasoning centers remain dormant until 21 +. So you fall in love truly, madly, deeply...and have no way to keep yourself in check except what you've been taught. I'd say wait until your frontal lobe is most likely to have already triggered (you feel it when it happens...suddenly the silly s*** isn't as big a deal anymore) and wait until you're in a loving and respectful relationship. Even if it ends, at least you'll feel you waited long enough.

Answer 10

It's not a matter of age more than it is a mind frame and marital status.

And stop trying to get a rise out of people, you know eleven is too young.

Answer 11

Yes 11 is way too young. If it was forced on you such as rape or incest you had no choice. If you did it on your own then you are way too young to make that decision. I would recomend to all virgins reserve this until you are married or at least with someone you are about to marry. 18 is a good goal to shoot for.