how can i bring back good feelings for myself in my bf's mind when he is ill treating me n has taken me for granted coz i told him that he is the only guy in my life
2006-10-13 07:36:13 · 12 answers · asked by ciendriella 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Even if your life is surrounded around him....don't let him know it. Guys seem to lose interest when they know that you are just basically sitting waiting on them. Even though they act as is they don't, they like it when girls are opinionated and have their own minds.
2006-10-13 07:43:17 · answer #1 · answered by DaddysGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do so many people ask the question, how can I prove my love, or how can I convince my bf, or how do I make him feel better? Short answer. YOU CAN"T.
Long answer. You never brought him good feelings and he never gave you any of your good feelings. A relationship is a sharing of your feelings with your partner, both good and bad. An acquaintence is someone you share your happy stuff with. You probably can share bad stuff with friends. But a serious bf/gf/spouse is one you ought to feel you're able to share your biggest dreams and your deepest fears and most crippling insecurities with b/c you trust that they accept you no matter what and would never intentionally play on what you reveal.
Your bf treats you badly? There is nothing YOU can do to change HIS mind. End of story. If you stick around, it tells him it's ok for him to treat you poorly b/c you will still be there. If you want to change his mind, make him make a decision. Stand up for yourself and have some respect, girl! Your happiness cannot come from him. You can only share YOUR happiness with him. And it doesn't sound like he's worth sharing much with right now.
2006-10-13 14:47:22 · answer #2 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a man to pay more attention to you, stop being available to him 24/7. Develop your own friendships and interests. Not only will that make you a more well rounded person, but it will make you more attractive to him when he sees he isn't the center of your universe.
2006-10-13 14:42:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him u want to see other people because u feel as if ur feelings r stronger for him than he has for u
2006-10-13 14:41:48 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say get rid of him, he sounds like one of those guys that are very sweet until they know they have you hooked. Dump him, I bet you can do better anyway.
2006-10-13 14:46:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my SUGGESTION to your QUESTION is to forget about him. you can't make anyone feel something they don't want to feel. maybe by just walking away from it will make him think of the good things he has in the past felt for you.
2006-10-13 14:47:04 · answer #6 · answered by marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uummm ya.. you should NOT be sticking arround for some boyfriend to treat you badly. go get a new boyfriend!
2006-10-13 14:37:49 · answer #7 · answered by Surf n' Snow 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just say good things to him and even though he wont say anything to u he will kepp it in his mind.best of luck
2006-10-13 14:39:16 · answer #8 · answered by ahmed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gave him your heart, which is nothing wrong, but you should never tell him, act like your loosing interest & he'll come around.
2006-10-13 14:38:20 · answer #9 · answered by jsav209 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to???? get rid of the jerk. don't you think you deserve better!!!
2006-10-13 14:40:14 · answer #10 · answered by ash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋