I really like my friends brother we have been together 4 times as in kissing & falling asleep together in the last month.he says im a very genuie person & he was'nt just saying that he always tells me that, he says he is lucky, the only thing is he found out a girl he liked a yr ago likes him now cause she broke up with her bf. he said he did like me but he doesnt no wheather to continue meeting me
2006-10-13 07:33:23 · 7 answers · asked by bornmadchick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him to be honest and decide, cause if he cheats he'll be hated badly, but if he tells u honestly u will even respect him as a friend!
all u need now it to have a serious make-or-break talk with him
2006-10-13 07:37:05 · answer #1 · answered by Alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I'm not real sure what exactly the question it, but here is what I think. I guess you need to tell him that you like him and would like to be his girlfriend, if that is what he wants. If he isn't sure what he wants (which most guy's don't , lol) then let him go. He will need to figure that out on his own. He may want or need to try it out with the other girl to see if that is what he wants in life. I would definitely let him know you aren't going to be around forever though. You don't want to be his "seconds" Go out have fun and try not to worry about it as hard as it may be. If it is meant to be for you two it will all fall in to place. Good Luck!!
2006-10-13 14:41:03 · answer #2 · answered by wiazardofoz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how this feels. i was kinda seeing my brothers friend, same kind of situation, and a girl that he's always been on and off with for like 3 years told him she wanted to go out again and he told her he would and told me he still wanted to see me on the side, i told him when he was ready for me...if he was lucky...i'd still be available. guess what, they broke up recently and we ran into each other at the mall and wanted to talk, i told him how happy i was with my man and our 2 beautiful daughters, he looked so upset. so just tell him the decision is his. is she someone he could really love or would it be some high school type relationship that'll last 2 weeks and be over.....
2006-10-13 14:40:30 · answer #3 · answered by hotmama913 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DECISIONS- DECISIONS- gee I guess you are not his official girl friend and he is apparently available- don't let him use you in the mean time while he is making up his mind- take care D
2006-10-13 14:39:07 · answer #4 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date another guy...it shouldnt be a choice between you and her anymore if he thinks your the one..he should have chosen you in a heartbeat instead of feeling confuse..Act indifferent and date another guy..see what happens next..he will come running to you and please play hard to get this time :-)
2006-10-13 14:36:46 · answer #5 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. If he stays you're in for what you do not want to get....Disappointments
2006-10-13 14:39:15 · answer #6 · answered by ayo_w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like the title of you question
2006-10-13 14:35:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋