every man i come across is just after sex, no relationship. Im beginning to give up on them!!!!
2006-10-13 07:26:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't have to give up, just give in. Let me allow some perspective. We as men will never ever be a part of that domain you call "relationship"!The one ideal fantasy that is in your world. Do you really think it is our nature, in our mental capability to completely do a 180 degrees in our emotional state of something we will never master. Women are emotionally superior to men! We are simpletons! That is your game. We want our focus to be on mainly one thing and one thing only. We are driven! We think in a cost benefit mindset. Yes it is unfortunate for you that you have the burden of managing it all. But do really think you can carve a man today into something as hard as 20 thousand years of petrified wood(y). Stop making excuses for perceived failure in how you view men. If you truly accepted them instead of trying to change them a miracle will happen, he will do anything in the world for you to make you happy. Men love women who love them. Want a bonus give into the "casual" with enthusiasm and observe the puppy dog wanting to play with you and only you. He will turn into a faithful mutt always wanting to please you. If you do it right he will take care of you real well, isn't that what you really truly want? Just remember relationship is your world, your responsiblity and your choice of pain if you put your thinking in a mind that will never understand. Why don't you creep up on your next guy in the middle of heat of the Super Bowl this coming January and whisper in his ear can we talk about our "relationship"now. Give it a try.
2006-10-13 08:16:11 · answer #1 · answered by mikey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Casual sex can always develop into something less casual. There will always be men who prefer to keep things on a business basis. Look at Hugh Grant. He didn't go with a prostitute because he couldn't get as much sex as he wanted from willing women, he went with her because he just wanted a straightfoward financial transaction.
2016-03-28 07:48:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women are so cheap these days, why keep something around that everyone else has had. If you know what i mean. If women want men to be more serious then women need to threat them selfs with respect first before men will commit. Men don`t want cheap sluts these days which most women are. But they are even higher matenice and spit a lot of hate towards men.
2006-10-13 07:29:37 · answer #3 · answered by Joe soe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are like that. Stop looking for a man, and just wait till the right 1 comes.
2006-10-13 07:28:39 · answer #4 · answered by scragette2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most don't have a clue what they want and committing scares the hell out of them. Sex is a basic need and so they are comfortable coming to women for that and nothing else.
Hang on in there - some men do want more and will not want to think of you being with anyone else but them.
2006-10-13 08:03:42 · answer #5 · answered by Thicksetsexy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I have good news...not all of us guys just want casual sex; only the immature or insecure ones. Don't give up hope...I am convinced there's someone out there for everyone. Keep looking; that's what I'm doing...still searching for Ms Right, instead of Ms. Right Now.
2006-10-13 07:30:35 · answer #6 · answered by answerman63 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could you clarify the question a little? From the way you've written it, it looks like you think this is something new, or unique to the men that you come in contact with.
2006-10-13 07:29:02 · answer #7 · answered by open4one 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are definitely looking in the wrong places, there are some real good guys out there on there own. Yes I am a man. Be a bit more choosy.
2006-10-13 07:31:59 · answer #8 · answered by s_andrews_uk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because there are so many sad women out there prepared to give it to them, Don't give up because no man really wants to marry a slag - you're time will come. Remember that your body is your temple. Good luck.
2006-10-13 09:59:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bcoz u dont providing them the real thing u r just providing them ur body not ur feelings
u have an agreement to b casual........
means having nothing special in ur own
listen dont give them the way out of ur heart
a way which leads them to ur body
but let them know more n more about ur inner feelings
n then guess by ur ownself that which one is honest sharing n sincer just with u not with other things ........dont try this job in hurry.........stay! wait n watch
2006-10-13 07:48:24 · answer #10 · answered by LoViNg AnGeL........... 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋