2006-10-13 07:23:32 · 10 answers · asked by sambonesgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think it is because their mom always did everything for them growing up and now they just think it is a womans job since we do it without even thinking. But if you want him to do more just don't do it and see if he does it.
2006-10-13 07:41:43 · answer #1 · answered by yrunosy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look back to how he was raised. My current boyfriend didn't have to do anything because his mom was a stay home mom & thought it was her "Duty" to do everything. Now she regrets it because ALL 3 of her boys grew up not helping around the house. Our biggest argument between him & I. He complains but wont' do anything - I just laugh at him & tell him if he doesn't like it fix it he's an adult & can do it just as well as me - I'm NOT his mommy. Now my ex husband was raised with chores around the house & had no problem helping me with the house even though I was a stay home mom back then. He said we both live there, mess it up & use it so we can both take care of it. My son has chores & likes being self sufficient and responsible so I know he won't be a lazy butt.
2006-10-13 07:44:12 · answer #2 · answered by tygernside 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a learned thing from childhood. I know some boys that grew up learning to do things in the home, they're married now and still do work in the home. And then there are the men who finally realize that helping is the right thing to do especially if your spouse works also.
2006-10-13 07:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey some men help out around the house, my second wife was drunk and did nothing, I cooked and cleaned and scrubbed the toilets and did laundry folded clothes, vacuumed,, but you never hear me complain about it
2006-10-13 07:25:42 · answer #4 · answered by rich2481 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Becoz its us foolish women who have made the habbit of doing every thing for them , so now its become our royal duty to serve them everything on a platter. Ladies wake up , we too need a life and a little pampering.
2006-10-13 07:29:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have four boys 3-13-15-16 and they all do houswork and when they get married they said they will continue to cook and clean and their wives wont have to lift a finger!! i believe this is something boys learn fromtheir mothers it is their mothers job to keep them from being lazy in the home!!
2006-10-13 07:30:56 · answer #6 · answered by notyochic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I beg your pardon,are you predjudice?I have always helped my wife around the house,even with working 2 jobs full time!I help get the kids off to school,clean,and cook,and laundry too.Try that one on for size....Ms.Right!!
2006-10-13 07:30:00 · answer #7 · answered by gibbyguys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b/c really we are lazy !
that is about it !!!!
well that is what you would like to think but really
it is b/c men are hunters and gathers we hunt we like to eat what we hunt and we like the thrill of the chase but we are NOT NESTER'S we could sleep on a rock we don't just a long as we can hunt the next morning
2006-10-13 07:32:14 · answer #8 · answered by 32606 3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not true, I am a single father and have a live- in GF, and I do most of the housework
2006-10-13 07:27:46 · answer #9 · answered by madman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they think that woman's job...and they r lazy.
2006-10-13 07:25:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋