Why is he not sharing his true feelings? I asked him if he could see us dating again and he said he couldn’t comment on that right now…but then I get a text msg from him the following weekend kinda late saying ‘last chance…would be nice to wake up together and watch a movie…last chance.” Since I said it was late and that he was too late…do you think he is hurt?? We dated for 3 years and broke up cuz he cheated but have remained in touch for 7 years…why cant he be forward with me on his feelings? Does he sound confused?? He was really open when we met up for the first time in a year…sharing his future plans, etc….please help! Should I confront him on my feelings? I thought it was pretty clear asking him about dating…
2006-10-13 07:19:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Has it occurred to you that just maybe he doesn't want to be with you again and that you're just annoying him? That's how it sounds to me.
2006-10-13 07:22:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say do what you feel you need to do. if you cant put up with him and the ex girl than exit the picture. to me it seems like he must still like her if he's listening to the rumors that she's spreading about you. what he needs to do is put her in her place an then maybe she'll stop acting the way she does. ex-girls can be hell to pay if they are obsessed wit the guy. me ill curse a chick out if i have to. i have this same problem as you but not really. the boy i talk to has a girl claiming to be pregnant but we think shes lying. she calls him all the time to question him like shes his girl but never says anything about the baby then she told him once like a couple of months ago that she was gonna have the baby in June now its changed to sometime later this year. so i told him if she don't have a baby in June its not yours an after June you not gone have nothing to do with her. you can always give him an ultimatum.
2016-05-21 23:14:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl dont play ureself...that was a booty call...dont confuse it for more than what it was....And remember he cheated, who could you trust him after that? You will always have that thought in the back of your head...My suggestion is to let it go....Its not easy..neer said that it would be, but if a man truly wants you...he will purse you and will not stop until he gets you...Bottom line....
2006-10-13 07:23:05 · answer #3 · answered by sincere030170 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he text you late at night saying "last chance," then it was probably just a booty call anyway and he probably did someone else instead when you said it was too late.
2006-10-13 07:24:40 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys tend not to always share their feeling with an ex. And you rejected him by saying no to meeting for a booty call. Why would he want to open himself up to more hurt? That's why he is your EX.
2006-10-13 07:24:10 · answer #5 · answered by Joe S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you go play w a cheater- and one that plays w your head on top of that???? Do you always pick the guys that are going to wind up treating you bad???? You need to get out of the familiar mode- even though it is comfortable and fit well= you need help- get on w your life and find out why you do this crap to yourself- it is very selfdestructive- he did not deserve your trust and does not now- D
2006-10-13 07:26:29 · answer #6 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A. he is your ex....he has no obligation to show his feelings
B. he cheated before because he just wanted some tail
C. Based off that text message, maybe that is all he wants from you now.
2006-10-13 07:24:24 · answer #7 · answered by tightlies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't been with this man for 7 years? I don't get why you give a f*ck?
2006-10-13 07:25:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he has someone else that he can not talk in front of them. I think you should move on.
2006-10-13 07:22:51 · answer #9 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to remind yourself why he is your ex.
2006-10-13 07:24:13 · answer #10 · answered by drubaby32698 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋