I have been going out with my boyfriend for almost two years. He refuses to let me meet any of his friends or his family. I dont know if he is ashamed of them or me . what would you do in this situation?? I love him to pieces, we used to go out all the time but just recently we just stay in . What should I do
2006-10-13 07:11:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's set in his way and is comfertable Cosmopolitin magazine did an article on this in this months issue. Guys like that don't want to get married. If you want to get married then let him know you want something out of life and if he's not wanting the same then move on. It's hard and no one wants to make that desision, but your happiness is more important.
2006-10-13 07:13:45 · answer #1 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is married, and YOU are the other woman. Kick his sorry no good butt to the curb........... If you wanted to meet his family, you would. You have been dating him for 2 yrs and I am sure you have some idea or clue to where they are and how to meet them. I bet if you go out of your way to meet them, a world of secrets you weren't counting on will fall open into your lap. There is no way you live together and have been all this time. Because for SURE you would have met his friends and his family......... if nothing else, over the house phone when they were to call. What a mess.......... I would do a back ground on this guy and find out just who I had been dating for the past 2 years. Blessed be.
2006-10-13 07:19:53 · answer #2 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,the best time shared in a relationship is spent with one another in your home,and besides u said it yourself u guy always going out well at one point u have to spend alittle time home bound to u know build that inter relationship up u feel me ,but dont get me wrong its good to go out once in awhile so with that in mind plan something when u know hes not doing anything and just go!,As far as him not leting u meet his friends he might think there to childish for u to be around or he just dont trust them enough to bring them around u,because his friends are maybe the type that would ty to hit on u and just dont want to chance that!
2006-10-13 07:21:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do what I did, I let it go on for 4 years, I feel like a "dirty little secret". Not met any friends or family and hve been together for 4 years. I am now in the position of getting ready to leave.
2006-10-13 07:14:48 · answer #4 · answered by simon m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im suprised he hasnt let you meet his family! I think you two should just sit down and talk about.
When a relationship gets older, usually things get boring. You have to liven it up alittle....dont stay in all the time, try something new. Go on vacation, travel, go to an amusement park...do something exciting.
2006-10-13 07:14:04 · answer #5 · answered by I Love My Kitties 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm probably not the best person to answer your question , as I am in a similar situation to you. All I can say is that if you truly love this person then you should tell him how you feel. If he truly loves you he will understand how you feel . Maybe he doesn't realise what keeping you all apart means to you , Good luck. I hope it all works out the way you want it to.
2006-10-13 07:15:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, I was seeing someone for a while and I never met their friends (I knew their family already from way back) and was really secretive about his life and about us. Turns out he was just using me... what an arsole!
Issue him with an ultimatum. Or pay a sneaky visit to his mum's house or something under a lame excuse.
2006-10-13 07:15:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is hiding something from you?
Would not like to suggest what but it might be worth finding out some more about him and his family.
Maybe he hasn't got one but doesn't want you to know for some reason.
2006-10-13 07:15:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes just not ready to comit i totally understand the parents thing... but you definately should have met his friends by now...maybe he just doesnt feel like answering questions, friends and family tend to barage you with questions and assume things...im a chick and i dont want to introduce my guys to my parents or even some of my friends.
2006-10-13 07:15:01 · answer #9 · answered by Lek 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooo you're a local! nice to see a northerner in here. best thing you can do is talk to him. be open and honest and explain why you feel the way you do. you are a partnership and together you will work it out x
2006-10-13 07:14:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋