i usually meet really cute girls at parties, n hit on them. like any other guy would. i find out they have boyfriends but, by the end of the night we end up hooking up. i dont force them they give in or want to. should i feel guilt for this. i do later when they come around with their boyfriends. but its not like im cheating...
2006-10-13 07:07:08 · 11 answers · asked by ikthes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nothing like that, but take care not to spread AIDS.
2006-10-13 07:11:16 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I subscribe to the theory you are your brother's (and sister's) keeper. This can result in the whole ignorance is bliss phenomenon, but regardless, if you know they have a bf, then yes, it's cheating, and if you feel guilty about it, you must think so, too. If I had a party, and a recovering alcoholic came over and I knew they were in AA but I talked them into drinking, even just a couple, shouldn't I feel guilty if they start drinking again?
2006-10-13 14:22:07 · answer #2 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are the ones who are cheating.
However, if you find out they have a boyfriend, it is time to quit hitting on them. Stop and think how it would feel to you if some guy was hitting on your girlfriend.
2006-10-13 14:12:31 · answer #3 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are the ones that are cheating but just know what comes around goes around. I don't think it's a good idea
2006-10-13 14:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by *~*Christel*~* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is on the girl but I will say this be careful what you put out in the world cause what goes around comes around.
2006-10-13 14:10:39 · answer #5 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They cheated not you. Remember that, if there loose they end up cheating on you latter. RUN!
2006-10-13 14:11:04 · answer #6 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO U DON'T HAVE TO BE GUILTY BUT U SHOULD BE CAREFUL U MIGHT GET UR A** KICKED!!!!!!!!
2006-10-13 14:18:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your fine, keep up the good work....
2006-10-13 14:09:14 · answer #8 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, just wrap it.
2006-10-13 14:15:14 · answer #9 · answered by DR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all. they are cheating not you,
2006-10-13 14:10:21 · answer #10 · answered by ed46324 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋