I have very little experience with guys and im 22. There is a guy i like but find im feeling awkward, nervous and uncomfortable round him and just end up talking rubbish. Any tips on how to fake confidence and be able to flirt with this guy. I come out with the most silly things at times and i just want it to be natural
2006-10-13 07:04:22 · 15 answers · asked by joanne100uk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Deep breath. Slow down. Look at him and smile. Try to just listen for awhile. This will relax you. A little nervousnes is okay. Don't worry about it so much.
2006-10-13 07:07:26 · answer #1 · answered by BParker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting is not something that comes on strong.
1) The voice should be soft, caring and happy. Word should be personal, curies but not overly noisy.
2) Eye contact is glance and not staring till the right time to move into a kiss
3) Finger. It's a big move so hold that back till he is ready. Touch him only on he hand lightly and for a second during a conversation or laughing at a joke so it's part of a natural movement
4) Body is well showing you natural self so cloth is important.
2006-10-13 07:23:01 · answer #2 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you so sure the things you say are "silly"? You want to be "natural" but you ask what you can do to "fake confidence" When you talk to him try to respond honestly to what he says for awhile, IF you can try to forget you're there until things that ARE your own do start to come out naturally.
I know it seems impossible, but try to forget focusing on your feelings while you're near him.... after all he's the one you'd like to know more about... you already know yourself, and at the moment it is getting in the way.
2006-10-13 07:13:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well act like you are a little girl basically..well not really but laugh when you feel like it let him catch you looking at him then quickly when he catches you watching him...he will get the idea. but dont do that too much or he will think your nuts. No pressure right? And guys love a girl who likes anykind of sports, particularly football and basketball. just make a point of talking to him say something like, "oh no my friend just called and canceled our plans for a night out...dont suppose you would come with me would you?" Say please and give him the whole puppy eyes thing so he will feel obliged to take you.. fun huh? Good Luck
2006-10-13 07:14:02 · answer #4 · answered by mybizyagottaknowthat2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't fake confidence. You just have believe that you are a great person and be yourself. If you do that you should be fine. If you stumble a little bit it is not big deal and if he likes you it will not matter. Good Luck!
2006-10-13 07:08:09 · answer #5 · answered by David P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. Watch what other girls do when they are flirting. Imitate them.
Have fun doing it, though, and try not to be so nervous! When a guy doesn't respond to your flirtations, it's not the same as being rejected like guys have to learn to accept when we ask a girl for a date. Either he'll talk to you or he won't.
2006-10-13 07:11:23 · answer #6 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the best thing to do is just give a nice smile :)
It shows acceptance, warmth and a genuine happiness at being in that persons company.
2006-10-13 07:07:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time you plan to be around this guy, wear your sexiest undies. It's a turn-on just knowing that HE doesn't know! This will also make you feel sexy and therefore you'll have more confidence!
2006-10-13 07:08:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Silly small talk is flirting. Touch him a bit when you see him. Pat him on the back, rub his arm. There's no secret to it.
And laugh at his funny comments no matter how stupid they are.
2006-10-13 07:07:49 · answer #9 · answered by bill m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about somthing that you understand and that you like, that way you wont be struggling for something to say and you will sound confident with the conversation.
2006-10-13 07:07:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋