hey guys, there's this guy that i really like and he likes me, too... we've already made love and all that and it was great.. the passion between us is incredible.. we are planning to spend the night together soon, but the problem is that i'm finding it hard to understand how he feels.. he's the mail man and he delivers the mail at my office everyday. he even comes in to talk when there's no mail for me. he reads the paper and takes out articles of the sports section (like he can't buy his own paper, lol) yesterday we made love and it was like a dream, then today he dropped by wearing glasses and i noticed he avoided looking at me for a longtime. i want us to have a real relationship, but i'm finding it hard to understand him.. i don't want to ask him about how he really feels about me... since you guys may have more experience could you please tell me what his feelings could be? i',m thinking of just moving away or something! and please no rude comments.
2006-10-13 07:00:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask him straight and take decision.
2006-10-13 07:04:01 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's he feeling? It goes something like this: "It was great to get into her. Nice to get off once in a while. Wonder if she'll go again? Hope she doesn't get all clingy."
Yeah, that's the rub. When the relationship is sexual, there isn't any way of knowing whether it can be more than that. You get the message he's sending but you don't like it and I don't blame you one little bit. It's not possible to avoid ALL chances of feeling used but there are precautions you can take. When the sex comes first you never know if his messages of intimacy are for purposes of sex or the long term.
2006-10-13 14:08:26 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could be wrong but coming from a male perspective you may have been putty in his hands and he played with you enough to get what he wanted. I seriuosly hope this is not the case and don't feel bad either. You enjoyed yourself and you had a great time. I would also ask him where do we go from here, as what would he expect of he were in your shoes?
Goodluck and I hope this is the beginning of a beautiful relationship
2006-10-13 14:08:40 · answer #3 · answered by madtyga2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask him what is up with the 2 of you. Don't you move away cause that is running & there is no need.
2006-10-13 14:05:33 · answer #4 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.. find someone else .. who wants a real relationship
2006-10-13 14:19:44 · answer #5 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it sounds more like he just wants a fling
2006-10-13 14:03:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and ask him? Seriously talk to him.
2006-10-13 14:02:41 · answer #7 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be real and just ask him straight up, you can do it in a cute sexy way i bet!
2006-10-13 14:05:37 · answer #8 · answered by chuckleburry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him
2006-10-13 14:05:47 · answer #9 · answered by sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋